Meals to win over a man? ( a rant)

I believe you got the wrong idea there, sarahruthbeth22...As per my understanding, the articles you have read are simply articles that list out the meals that a woman could cook to get a man to propose her...I believe that woman is better in cooking than most men, albeit the fact that most of the best chefs in the world are men...For that very reason, one of the criteria that satisfy men description of women is the ability to cook... It is not to say that cooking is the only way to win your man, but if you cannot cook what do you think both of you will eat after your marriage? You can always eat outside every now and then, but to do that every day will dry up your pocket faster than you can imagine... Despite the fact that you cannot cook, you can always learn...Learning how to cook is not as hard as you would have thought...Simply learn from countless cooking books available in your book store, or simply revert to your mother for her secret recipe...Good luck!

Don't feel bad. The girl I am with now does not cook either. Well, she does not cook everyday. She cooks maybe twice a week. When I was married, my ex cooked everyday and always had a hot meal on the table. I do not think that cooking food is the only thing in a relationship. Besides, men should learn how to cook also. Don't men make the best chefs? See! I feel a total connection to the girl I am with and believe me it goes deeper than cooking.

I can't cook to save my life. i burn water! On the other hand, my husband is a gourmet, and loves it!!! We make a great team, that way. He does all the cooking, and we are both very happy. A relationship should not be about sexist stereotypes, but rather about the two individuals, and how they compliment each other.

Well, it is not just the way Sarah... There are other ways too.. this is only one of the best.. As a guy I can tell you how we guys love the spicy food cooked by our girls... :) But trust me, that is not only way to a man's heart... There are many other things too...

I think you got it all wrong there friend. People don't get married because they know how to cook or some talent. Men marry women because they both love each other. It has nothing to do with the fact that a woman can or can't cook. Further, I think the best way to anyone's heart (be it a man or a woman) is the way the other takes care of us. If we feel that we're being cared, that simply means that you are loved - one way of showing how much you love a person is how you take care of what's important to them - mostly feeding them. If you can't cook, it doesn't mean you love him less, however, what's stopping you from learning? or at least attempting to do so? Cooking doesn't require talent, there are a lot of ways to learn this skill but you truly need to want it in the first place. I remember how my mom kept on learning new things to be able to take care of my dad well. She studied cooking because she wasn't taught how to cook by her mom. Then she learned how to do massages. Then she made sure she became an expert of whatever made my dad happy - like perfecting the recipe he loves. Remember that actions speak louder than words. You may say "I love you" every second of the day, but nothing shows it more than the actions you do for the one you love. Yes, you may take pride in never cooking for him - but perhaps if you could swallow your pride and learn how to fry an egg for him once, he'd feel that you could adjust and be better because of the love you both share.

Whoever told you that sweetie? The man is suppose to love you, not what you can do. Mine can cook, a bit, i think. But anyway, that story is a old wives tale.

Why don't you cook? You like to eat right? You like spending money eating out all the time? Everyone should learn how to cook be they male or female. I don't understand when people say they can't or won't cook it makes no sense. I'm not the best cook and don't cook things from scratch but at least I can open a can and throw it in a pot do you at least do that? I have a word for the men who may be reading this post. Learn how to cook! The way to a woman's heart is also through her stomach. I know myself and I can speak for a lot of other women we love it when a man can cook, trust me it will go a long way. We get tired of cooking for you all the time learn to cook and it will make us happy.

Its just a skill just like earning money.A man can love you and vice a versa even though you dont earn money but then it can be disadvantage when it comes to starting a family.Cooking is not a gig deal.Anyone can be average cook if there is desire.

here's a thing, if you can't cook then marry someone who can cook in that case there's someone who will cook when you start your family man doesn't love a woman because she can cook alone, cooking is skills or talent that can be learned in due time, while you have your own skills and talent which your man definitely will love more than knowing how to cook

i think someone like you may love either your goodness or shortcoming,i means true love.if the man prefer a girl that is skilled in cooking,he'd rather choose a chef not a lover!Nevertheless,when a girl is falling in love with a boy,she will be as best as she can to satisfy him for learning cooking skills.Love is selfless