What would be your perfect revenge?

@katie0 (5203)
Japan
April 16, 2011 12:12am CST
Was there anytime in your life that it was sooo hard to let go an anger, to forgive that you actually thought about revenge, but really to plan it?? I did and mine was at 16 or something, first I would pay to the guy be beaten up, then I would tie him in a chair and he would be like taken hostage there for 3 months. After a while the image vanished LOL. I would never do that. It even got boring, but I remember vividly being the only time I really enjoyed imagining such a thing! hahahaha Ever had thirst for revenge? What would be your perfect revenge?
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@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
Hi katie... Perfect revenge in three folds. But not applicable in all situations. Whatever it that they have done to me, I will do to them three times the pain. That's perfect revenge FOR ME.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Apr 11
Wow, you are a bad girl, hahahaha. Three times? I will freak the person up a little, I don't consider that a revenge, but for example there was this job that I had to handle calls to this b*tch and she yelled at me all day but she dated the boss so I didn't want to get fired because I was registered and all, so I would freak her out, you know like harass her outside of the office when no one was looking, she narrow down that disgusting voice a lot. When I finally got out cause my body was even hurting because I was so angry to her, I felt like she won, I couldn't handle her and I droped the job, what I did was to left a message through another girl that worked with us in certain places that I know she visits that she can't go there anymore cause I go to and if she comes I'll kill her. For 2 years I really didn't see her, I think she listened.
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
19 Apr 11
LOL, well at least I told her not to come to my areas and she really didn't, when while we worked together, she used to hang out in those places, so I gave up that job for her then she won but in the end she didn't come so for two years before coming to Japan I would be in those places thinking: "And yet she doesn't dare to come" - and felt good. I stopped the job because of her because I was so stressed that I was even having chest pains. Many girls before me would kiss her a** and as I never even talked to her she was the nastier with me, but I stood there 1 year, it seems all girls before me have been dropping out in 6 months or less, nobody can't stand her.
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
Well, I guess it worked perfectly for her. It's nice to do silly things for some time. But aren't you having regrets that you dropped the job because you felt she won? Maybe you could harass her a bit more for you to be satisfied and much likely you will win before her. Happy mylotting katie.. Thanks for responding back..
@misc11 (384)
• United States
16 Apr 11
I have wanted revenge on a couple different ex-boyfriends but thankfully got past that! I wanted a different type of revenge though. I wanted to better myself and make the guys jealous and make them see what they had lost. I just started eating healthy, working out, tanning, etc, etc. I went to some extremes. And then I did everything possible to see them out, and it did work! He did want me back, but I didn't care at that point anymore.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Apr 11
Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you. And I'm so glad that you were intelligent and respected your self to not go back, well, you weren't interested but still there are girls that can humiliate them selves in a way that I feel even sorry. I'm really happy for you. It seems like movie revenge. And it was great for you, I'm sure you wanted to still be the way you got right? You have some will power girl.
@vandana7 (99920)
• India
19 Apr 11
That is for boyfriends... what if it was somebody else...somebody who troubled your ma pa or even you... what would you've done misc11
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
Hi Katie! When I was younger I also have some crazy thoughts of having a revenge to a woman who ruins my life and my bf's life. She's someone that I guess every gf would hate. Imagine that she befriended me and saying things that she's happy for me and my bf blah blah and wish us to be together in the future...but all those are just lies coz the truth is she's planning some dirty games and try to break our relationship I am really mad for what she have done to us, betraying our trust, my trust and ruining my bf's career that time. Because of my too much anger for her, I actually think of killing her! haha...But I will not kill her that easy, I want her to suffer first and I want to see her dying slowly in pain! lol! I really bad thinking those things but of course I will not do that...I am just imagining it to atleast ease the pain that she brought into my life... But come to think of it, that's not the right thing to do and with that everybody will be a loser. For me, the best revenge and sweetest revenge that I can do is to make my self a better person, to stand strong and show them that they didn't succeed in ruining my life, that despite the things that they have done to me, I am still here, happy and have a better life. That's what I do and now, after all those things that my bf and I have been through in the hands of this "witch" , we still end up marrying each other and now living happily. And her? She didn't get any good for what she have done. And I think karma strikes her, we don't need to dirt our hands for such kind of people. God is watching us, and He is always fair.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Apr 11
Hi! That's for sure the best revenge, that way the enemy can just drown in their jealoussy for sure, as they want to put you guys down this person is the one to go. But your fantasy is reaaaally funny, I think we all think about killing someone, only crazy serial killers do the actual work but I think it's normal to want to hurt when someone is doing too much to really drive us mad, hahaha. I wanted even to hire a group of guys to hit him, not enough to die or even go to hospital, but a sort of a beating, them they would tie him up and I would kidnap him for months, hahahaha. There was this one time I was really angry.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 Apr 11
I can't see anything perect about seeking revenge., Revenge will always find a way to destroy what is in your heart. I think that revenge is better left behind us so that we can move on without bitterness or regret.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Apr 11
Oh yes, I never took revenge so I think sometimes what would it do to me, for like one time I had this fantasy revenge, it last for a long time in my mind and fade away, the anger was gone. But impulsively I almost took revenge like 3 times or more! I'm glad now I didn't, I don't think I will think actually doing it anymore, I feel like this peace I feel inside comes from actually not hating nobody. We can hate, sure, but it goes away, if we take revenge I'm afraid it will never go away cause it's seems revenge is addictive :)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
When someone does us wrong, we learn to hate that person and become obsessed with them. Obsessed, like we think about them every time and that thing they did and the thing that could help us feel better which is we can call revenge. I have this one time when people who I considered to be my friends lied to me about something and I felt so bad and stupid and betrayed. So it left me thinking about things or ways I could hurt them like they did to me. But in a long run I realized that I'm hurting myself because I kept on thinking about them and that thing they did to me. It's like torturing yourself and allowing yourself to sin by thinking bad about people. I learned to forgive though it still hurts. I just said to myself that it's okay at least I did not do anything wrong and I won't feel guilty for anything. For the exact plans I have in mind, I don't actually remember, but it's always weird things i came to think of and something usually not possible lol.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
19 Apr 11
You are so right. Last year, after years reminding some people without even wanting to I decided to listen to a mentor's advice and forgive, letting them go. I repeated time after time and it took like one month and a half and I finally forgave them. I couldn't even say their names when I talked about them as I hated them so much. It worked. I don't wish to see them and I would never hang out again, but I really don't wish them bad, no revenge, no nothing. Next time someone really do something horrible, I will do my self a favor and try to forgive as soon as I can. I thought that by forgiving I was letting them go easy, the truth is they went too easy but I am the one left behind and making what they wanted, like you said, torturing me. Forgiving is for us, not for enemies. I thought I was being stupid if I ever let go. Now I think how stupid it was to hang on my hate, or anger, I don't know, for so long. I'm so happy for you that you let them go. These friends really don't deserve you. To lie to you? Yeah, they weren't your friends. I'm really happy. Continue this way, not hating someone is so light, hate brings something so heavy to carry on in life :)
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
16 Apr 11
I have taken revenge on someone but it wasn't in a carefully planned form. It was sort of impulsive. It was one weekend when I got my wisdom teeth taken out, and my boyfriend was supposed to take care of me. Instead he played video games with his friends while I was starving and lying down from medication. After a while I was just really angry because I realized he is not nice to people who are physically suffering. I noticed he is terrible at taking care of others, although he loves it when everyone takes care of him. Well, in the next couple days when I was feeling better I drove home where I remembered I had some old eggs that I couldn't use anymore. I went back to his place and threw them at his car. But I wasn't satisfied because I watched him hose it down and it was kind of boring. So then I crashed my car into the back of his, just enough so that there was a small dent. It was really foolish of me, but I couldn't help myself - you know how guys feel about their cars. He called the cops so I left before they came, but then I called the cops and told them to go to his house because they were smoking.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
17 Apr 11
Wow you are a bad*ss, I don't know if in that case I would be that angry, I would do the eggs maybe. It was funny how you got rid of it actually sending the police there. Guys who smoke those things are not nice or intelligent, please choose better in the future :D
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
16 Apr 11
Revenge like resentment, is a double edged sword that cuts both ways, and hurts you and your antagonist equally. A resentment can be carried for years, and is a source and cause of cancers, and other malfunctions of the physical, and spiritual bodies. Be wise, loving, and forgiving, and live in health, and happiness forever!
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
the perfect revenge is to improve yourself and show everyone how fabulous you can be.the perfect revenge is to show everyone how much you can do to prove them they are wrong.yesterday I was invited to a party which a former friend (now we're not in speaking terms and barely look at each other) also attended.I went there with my new fabulous gay friend who can sing well.knowing that former friend,she is awed by my gay friend's singing voice.plus my gay friend is good looking.sorry for her,my gay friend didn't even paid the littlest attention to her,not even glance at her.he knows the whole story of our friendship fallout.I know she sees and know that I am very much happy with my gay friend, which proves that I am not a boring person and I may be childish but someone fabulous finds me fun.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Apr 11
Hey that's a great answer. The only revenge I fantasise and now it's funny to think about was actually kidnapping the person and all you know, it lasted some days when I was angry and I was like a child yet. Now in real live being fabulous, happy and all is indeed the best way.
@vandana7 (99920)
• India
19 Apr 11
Sweetie..I'd be lying if I said I never wanted it. But exactly what I wanted I could never formulate... :) I am the planning kind of person... So when I start thinking of revenge ..even the worst, it has to have a first step, and many small steps on the way, by the time I am a few steps on that path, I either find myself a new enemy or a new friend so..that revenge objective somehow disappears. That does not mean that I dont want it, but intensity is not there. However, god did punish a few of my detractors... comprehensively. So I guess, I am safe in his hands.
• Mexico
16 Apr 11
Hi katie: Of course I have felt this way. In my case I think that the best revenge is to ignore the persons that has hurt you and act like if they didn't exist. Keep working hard to show them that you don't need them and that you can succeed. It's a sweet revenge specially when they are facing the consequences of their acts ALVARO
@zeraeign (163)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Um, I don't know. The best is to put someone to shame through words in front of many people. I guess that's what I would do. hahahahaha
• Argentina
16 Apr 11
I'm planning several revenges actually. But not something to do to someone, actually is something like: look who I am now! I'm better than you! I'm more than you and you're nobody! I think that the way that I am mad with those people requires a revenge like this. And I'm already working on this, also, would be really good for me and my life and my future. Definitely, that's the perfect revenge.