considering suicide
@leon3000502000 (1564)
Philippines
April 16, 2011 6:37am CST
Hi all mylotters, I would like to ask you a very important question about life. Have you considered suicide as the answer, at times you feel that you are not valuable? when you feel no one loves you? when you are lonely? when you experienced shame before your friends or before you girlfriend or boyfriend? when you are depressed? I myself experienced all of that when I was in my college years. Many times I am thinking on how to end my life without pain. mylotters, have you experienced, being depressed, lonely, sad, no one loves you, shamed and the like? how did you deal with it? are there any other reasons why people consider suicide as the answer of their problems?
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4 responses
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 11
NEVER! I believe it is the most stupid thing to do. We all are human beings and we have feelings. Sometimes we feel happy and sometimes we do feel down. But that doesn't mean that it is the end for us.
Sometimes when I feel down, I'll just take a look at all the people around me (people that I don't know), and I think to myself, they could be having problems worse than me. And they are still here and doing what they are doing everyday.
When we fall down, we just have to pick ourselves up and move on. Even as a baby who's just learning to walk, when we fall down, we try to stand up again. Anyway, you're still young and there's still so much going on for you. Make something good happen for yourself. Don't waste it!
I hope that we have changed your mind about doing it.
@default234 (46)
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17 Apr 11
Sorry to hear about that .
for young people , I have to say you can solve anything if you can kill yourself .
what you think , what you want ? even you don't love yourself , any more you want people does it for you , don't be fool to think . Sleep ,sleep , And then , sleep ,everything 'll be better .
It's nothing with anybody ,it's your problem .
@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
hahaha, why you said sorry when you didn't do anything wrong. but thank you for sharing what you have in your mind.
@Delicious36 (190)
• Netherlands
26 Apr 11
Evryone is valuable, maybe your suroundings is very extreme about some achievements. Think bigger do you realy think that no one loves you in this earth?
I don't believe that. Maybe you should find friends who love you for who you are without the achievements?
@aksehc (18)
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17 Apr 11
I think my best advice for this is talk to your friends and family and stick with them. Soon we will always pass by our problems in life. It will just take time for us to heal. Its like a long process of fixing ourselves and accepting the truth that we need help from others because its true that no man is an island. When we feel like there's really no one who could help us, we have a higher being to whom we can talk to. It helps. :)
