This is it or is this it?

Philippines
April 16, 2011 12:40pm CST
Do you ever wonder,if your partner is the ONE for you? That he/she was the one you've been longing for,waiting for to come,and been dreaming for... What do you think are the signs that he/she is the ONE? For me at this moment,I think... Maybe. Maybe because I've been, wanting this kind of guy after so many relationships.. But,maybe its quite early for me to know if he's really the one. I just soooooo d-a-m-n wish that I could see if we're really are for each other... (sigh)... How about you,is the one you are with right now is the ONE you've really wished for?
5 responses
asliah
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
1 May 11
hi, i dont really know if i am with the one that i wish,or the one i wish,i dont know when will he come to my life and i dont want to expect on that,come what may and accept him.
carolscash
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
17 Apr 11
It sounds as though you have doubts that you have found the right guy and I believe that it is okay to doubt it for awhile. I believe that we all find the person for us at sometime in our life, but I don't believe that we always end up with that person. I find that many times circumstances interfere with that and we may end up with someone we truly love, but with someone that might not be the person we were meant to be with.
bird123
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
16 Apr 11
If it's true love, there really shouldn't be any doubts. If there is,remember, there is no hurry. True love won't leave. If it does, it won't be for long. Time will tell. Never rush until you know!
keshia2007r
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
16 Apr 11
In relationships I think, its still so important to look at your spouse and get weak. Or after having a huge fight with your gf/bf you can't stay mad at him or her. I've never believed in love at first sight, maybe lust at first site. But I do believe there is someone for everybody. Its also important to discuss the same qualities and morals you each have, especially if religion is a big part of your life. I still do wonder if my bf is the right one, but then i think I can't see myself with anybody else. Our situation is perfect.
MarappleStiffy
@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
Hmmn, I hope it won't be true with you and correct me if I'm wrong...are you saying that he meets all your requirements and you still have doubts? Well, you see, there are no Mr. Perfect, just Mr. PerfectMatchForYou...and if you are with your PerfectMatchForYou, you won't be feeling doubts...but if the relationship is just very new, say months, maybe you have hope, but if you've reached years and you still have that doubt, well, you should decide for yourself... I'm speaking from experience, you see, my ex is a law student, and the perfect man I wished for but then I fell head over heels in love with Mr. Imperfect...but very perfect to match me...I hope it's a different case with you though...