Falling in Love

i think i've seen couples who have instantly felt that connection, gotten married, and stayed in the relationship happily, for a long time now, and are still together until now. but i've also seen the opposite happen to some. i think it's all about whether the initial attraction they felt were just physical attraction or infatuation and not love ( or what I call a special connection mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, etc..but you get the idea right? ). and for some people who took time to build the relationship, i think that's the wiser or the wisest thing to do....but if you get really lucky and you hit the jackpot right away you can just skip these steps altogether.

Well the difficulty with that is the instant attraction that many people feel to a person. This is not there every time and friends do turn into lovers eventually, but that attraction will have already been there in some form. I dont think theres anything wrong with beginning a relationship too quickly, but I do know many people who try to advance their relationship far too quickly. Things like getting married within 6 months of knowing each other is just crazy. Why the rush? I also think it is unfair when people dont take proper contraception precautions and have children very early in their relationship. This is a recipe for disaster and often ends badly.

This is the age of 'instant', so you have everything instant like instant noodles, instant food etc.Therefore it is not surprising that there is instant love too.This so called love is not true love but only infatuation. You meet a beautiful girl or a handsome hulk and fall in love instantly.After a few days you discover that your dream man or girl has more faults than the hair on your head.so you break up and start looking for another person.If the love were true you would not look at the body but accept your love with all the good and bad qualities.True love is unconditional and rises above all bodily attractions. In the olden days people did not give much importance to bodily attractions but accepted their partners wholeheartedly and made their married lives successful.It is only in this present modern era that you find relationships breaking up quickly and divorces taking place frequently.

In the situation of my husband and I, I knew that I loved him before I had ever met him in person (we met through the internet nine years ago). The reason that I felt that way was because of the fact that he was so open and honest with a person that he had ever even met. With that said, I've seen friends of mine that fell in love fast and hard and then I saw them come out of a relationship broken down. I don't think that falling in love, fast, hard and frequently. But, on the other side of that coin, I do see where there are cases where love at first sight really does exist.

That's what we call Whirlwind Romance. They fall in love at first sight. We can't blame them that is their feelings for each other. We must be happy for them. If at the end they broke up then that should serve as a lesson for them.

For me, getting into a relationship too soon isn't such a good idea. Love takes time to blossom. Falling in love is a process wherein it has to undergo a lot of tests before developing into a serious relationship. In order for a relationship to last, it takes years and it should have been built on a strong foundation. But nowadays, people tend to fall in love so easily. Their emotions overpower their rationality; that's why when problems come along the way, they just give up on each other and won't even bother to reconsider their relationship. Sad, but true.

Love is kinda tough at young ages most young people are quick to get in a relationship but doesn't really know the meaning of it. Most of us just call it lust what they go thru, But as you go further down the road you will understand falling in love takes time. Once you fall in love you would be the happiest person there is.