Friendship or Love???what do you think??

Spockers I respect you and i would say one would choose frienship......... because love is having a lot of expectations but frienship is without any expectations, its free of cost.... We give gifts to our lover but not to friends............. R u agree with me or not......???? :)

I think if you're in relationship with someone, it means that you two will get to know each other better as a lover and so that you can decide if you really suits each other as a person you wish to spend the rest of your life with or not. If you found out that he/she doesn't really match you then it's okay to end your relationship, doesn't mean that anyone is wrong or is at blame. But you better talk it out nicely about why you think you should end the relationship. And if you could end it smoothly I'm sure you'll be able to continue being a good friend. Your friendship might even be better. One of my friends are like that, they end their relationship in a really nice way and become a very close friend. Wish you the best luck.

I don't know you or what's right for you. I was in a situation where I had an on-off girlfriend and a female friend who I got on with better than anybody I'd ever known before. I got to wondering why I was messing around with my girlfriend when my friend seemed perfect for me. However my friend had said that she'd only had platonic relationships with men so I thought she wasn't interested in a romantic involvement. Then my girlfriend dumped me for longer than normal and I decided to test my theory by putting my arm round my friend, expecting to have to apologize profusely and hope we could still be friends. Well now we are still friends and we're also happily married to each other.

Are you talking about the same person? I mean, your friend and your love interest are both the same, is that it? Well, if you think that being friends with that person is way better than having a romantic relationship, then by all means keep the friendship alive.

There are certain reason why you have to choose, being a friend and a lover at the same time is much better than just a friend or just a lover the two must combine. But if you were not meant to be as lovers then choosing to remain friends is not bad.

i think that you are experiencing now is not easy especially there is a relationship that is involved. I've been through that before and I chose pursuing a relationship with her.. It wasn't easy at first, but I tell you that if you two have established a good relationship as friends, why not as partners? why not take the risk? if things would go rough in time, consider that before you are in a commitment, you are friends.. then you can talk and work things out..

i think friendship is more precious than love,sometimes its too hard to apologize with someone that we love rather than a friend.