will you whine or do something about it?

@chiyosan (30183)
Philippines
April 18, 2011 10:24am CST
if you have time to whine, then you have time to do something about it... do you agree? i do,and actually i admit that sometimes we cant help it and it comes naturally for us to complain and whine about things we don't see fit. hehe what about you? are guilty of this? hehe
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7 responses
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
19 Apr 11
Hi Chiyosan! Yes, I am a whiner and if I can do something to fix and solve it then I will take an action. It is not good if we just whine and complain things around without try to change and solve it.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
great to have you in the discussion. Appreciate your time in responding here. See you around and thanks very much!
• United States
19 Apr 11
Hi, Chiyosan! Most people whine and complain just to vent. They either have no idea what they could do about the problem, or they don't care enough to do anything about it. I always ask people who are whining or complaining what it is they plan to do about it. Most of the time they plan nothing other than getting it off their chests. I think a sign of intellectual maturity involves figuring out a solution for those things that cause us to whine or complain.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
thank you for your time to respond to the discussion. see you around mylot! Sorry if this response is a bit late. hehe Happy Mylotting!
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
18 Apr 11
I don't like to spend too much time whining about something. i used to do that when i was younger. it doesn't really solve anything and just prolongs the anxiety. i like to something about what is making me want to whine before whining has the chance to take over. it just turns out better in the end that way.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
appreciate your response to the discussion. thank you so much for your time, See you around mylot and Godbless!
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
I'm a whiner all right, but I do something about my the things I can change, I just talk a lot while solving it that's all...
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
great to have you in the discussion. Appreciate your time in responding here. See you around and thanks very much!
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
oh im guilty alright! haha im such a whiner! although i try to control myself i sill cant help it sometimes. im such a perfectionist and i often kill my younger sister with that attitude... im just lucky she's not a whiner like me, hehe
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
thank you for your time to respond to the discussion. see you around mylot! Sorry if this response is a bit late. hehe Happy Mylotting!
18 Apr 11
If I am capable of dealing with the thing that bothers me, it is better for me to just do something instead of complaining and whining. That way, something will actually change for the better. In this kind of situation, whining is just a waste of time. However, on the other hand, if the thing that is bothering me is absolutely out of my control, whining is the only possible choice other than giving up and leave it like that. Through whining, someone out there, who might be capable of improving that certain situation, might hear my voice and actually help me out. This same thing basically apply to almost everyone on Earth.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
great to have you in the discussion. Appreciate your time in responding here. See you around and thanks very much!
@DaDukeee (75)
• Romania
18 Apr 11
I think that most people whine complain or comment first on the problems they have to face.I don't know that many people that have a problem.don't say anything and act directly,most would ask advice on the matter.As for me I do act if the need be,if I find the situation is worth getting involved.People can cause problems too,if that's the case and if it doesn't affect me on a large scale,I let them be,I take no action.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
23 Jan 13
appreciate your response to the discussion. thank you so much for your time, See you around mylot and Godbless!