Friend of a Traitor !

A friend who became a traitor? Interesting discussion. I think in my lifetime, saying that a friend became a traitor is a bit tough, but there have been times where they have actually turned on me and then began to really speak lies about me. That is when things can really get ugly. I think what you should do if you feel that you have the nerve is to confront the friend and see what the devil is going on. If this is someone who you felt was a close friend and found out otherwise, then it is time to confront him/her. I have one best friend, actually, he is the closest friend that I can truly say has been my best friend. There are times when I feel that things are going "south" with our friendship because we have stopped doing a lot of the things we used to do together like camping, hiking, fishing, etc. I have lost my job and trying to make a living at other things but he always feels that it is better for me to work for minimum wage style jobs just because I am getting a paycheck. Well, I tried that and unfortunately, I did not get the hours to even bring home $30.00 a week. So, why try again when the same thing will most likely happen? Anyway, no matter what it is that he does or I may do that upsets us, we find a way to work these things out and start fresh. Other than that, I think you should try to work things out if the situation was not too horrible. If it is something that cannot be fixed, then move on and find a new friend.

Ask him/her why did he/she betrayed you. If he/she has just been misunderstood, still ask him, if he/she lies to you, he/she might ask for forgiveness but if not, forget all the things that links to you and to him/her.

Sure I have experianced this. I think most people have. Maybe that person wasnt really who you thought they were or they went through something that caused them to harden their heart. That happens too when people just get hurt to many times and they give up on caring. Not a good idea, but it does happen. I would back away from this person if they are causing pain to you.