Spare me the heartache next month...

Philippines
April 19, 2011 7:56am CST
I'm currently in a 6 months relationship. And I'm already sick and tired of dealing with different issues EVERY MONTH. Not just the ordinary-all-lovers-must-undergo issues but, those that were really targeting to destroy what was left of us to hold with our relationship. I'm tired of numbing the pain. Don't I deserve to have a happy and peaceful relationship?
1 response
@xjosiax (74)
• Australia
19 Apr 11
Yes you do! You 100% deserve to be happy and content with your partner and relationship. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Every relationship has its glitches. The ups and the downs. It comes with the territory but you have to take a breather step back and think 'Is it worth it?'Does he or she make me feel happy and content and safe when we don't have our 'Issues' to warrant sticking it out? Relationships take a lot of work but they don't drag you down to the point where you have to numb the pain. Well they shouldn't. We are the masters of our own destinies, in other words, we control our own happiness. Don't ever think you don't deserve something you want. You deserve to be with someone who makes you so happy numbing the pain isn't even a thought in your mind. Hope that helps.
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
you're right,relationships are hard work but I know that all will be worth it in the end. Thank you, it helps a lot.