Making love.. time needed

I think your pertaining to gf/bf relationship. Because making love is essential to marriage relationship, and its up to couple what day , time, or month they would. In case of bf and gf relationship, this decision is influence with the culture and principle between them. In my case, my ideology towards this matter changed. Strictly I wanted it after marriage but when I saw the guy of my life, "my husband", I gave in because I can feel that he was the guy sent from up above...

Nope! I think not.. If the guy does really love his partner, he should respect the girls decision! If the girl is not yet ready to make love with him then its not yet time.. If the girl is ready, she will tell him!

I really think that each relationship is different and in a way I think that if there are feelings like that or more preferably more for the person then you might choose to do it only cause each relationship is different. I do not necessarily believe that making love is the most important thing in a relationship and that you never want to feel like that is the main basis of the relationship cause if that becomes the case that you feel that that is all the other person wants then you could try to have them prove that it is not all they want or that there are more important things. Like, getting to know each other the best you can or just hanging out, talking or just coming up with things to do otherwise.

depend on the feeling I think...if both feel ready for it why not,you can read his mind and though he will know what you need,but for me I ll no go in bed easy before I know him for sure,and how long relationship will take for if just for fun i prefer not and to know a lot about him at least need 3 month a couple of date then think will go to bed with him or not at all...