Which part in your life did you struggle- during studies, get a job or after job

Hello Sham, Struggles were there, going on and will go on (lol). It was there in every part of my life and still I have some. I think I struggled much after the marriage. When my hubby met some accidents (twice) and was on bed, I was alone here with a small kid, managing the job, hospital, etc I struggled a lot. I got get help from both family but on that critical point I faced the struggles alone. This is life and without struggles we can’t survive.

I struggled during my student days in college because I was a working student, but then, I enjoyed every encounters I made. My bitter struggle was when my hubby got a special attention to his female colleagues, in every job he was assigned) that I even decided to quit everything, until such time, he made a good choice by being a good hubby again. Trials in relationship comes and it needs only firmness in decision making. Just take the risk, if in case.

I found learning to drive a car very difficult and I struggled with it for years. I found it very expensive and it was like being in a tunnel and never coming out of the other side. My first driving lesson was a disaster and I found steering very challenging and the driving instructor was spoke to me like a Sargent Major. I lost all interest and found it a miserable experience. Next I found a very kind, thoughtful and understanding. I had driving lessons with him and they went along wonderfully. I took a practical driving test but failed it each time. This was very upsetting and I made a silly mistake. I moved to a different area and bought my own car. I found another driving instructor but I didn't get on well with him. He made my confidence go right down. I hated learning with him. I booked a practical driving test but he said I wasn't ready so I canceled it. I went off on vacation and when I got back gave up learning to drive a car. My car sat in my drive and I kept it off road. I decided to get it back on the road and have a go with another driving instructor. I got on much better with that driving instructor. I failed another practical driving test but then things got excellent. Yes, I finally passed my practical driving test.

problems never disappear. i also experienced some financial problems my own but i learned that the key of not getting depressed with these kinds of problems is simple. just avoid thinking bout it as a problem, but a part of our daily life. sometimes we have to double of efforts. good for you that you're feeling better about your job.

it is good to hear that things are going better for you now..just remember that we are not given a problem that we cannot handle.. :) for me, i am really struggling to find a job right now.. i am a registered nurse and it seems that demand now in our country is low compared to the supply which is very high.. i am still trying to find a job right now.. :(