Do you still check up on your ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend?
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94914)
United States
April 20, 2011 10:01am CST
Even though most people do not remain friends with their exs - do you get curious about how they are doing, who they're with, how's their life going? Do you check up on their facebook, ask people how they're doing or something?
I have to admit, I do *sometimes* but only because all my exes and I have mutual friends so it's not hard to see my ex. Sometimes, I comment on someone and he comments after or something so it's right there.
I don't care for them but it just happens to be connected somehow.
Do you get curious?
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11 responses
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
25 Apr 11
Hi. infatuatedbby. I will have to admit, that I have in the past. But not anymore like that. I know that sometimes with any of my ex boyfriends they will write something on Facebook just so that I can notice it and be surprised. But I don't give into their sneaky tactics anymore. I know the kind of game that they are playing and they shall be playing it alone too.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Lol thanks for sharing (: Yeah, I have to admit I did/do too!
@albert911 (168)
• Thailand
23 Apr 11
It's a bit of a conflict situation: half of me wants to draw a thick line and forget everyting, over and out! While the other half cannot help but still think about the very I had been so close to once and ocasionally and covertly lookup social network sites and see what she is doing. It's a bit self-distructive isn't it?
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
23 Apr 11
I think its normal though. As you can see most people responded yes they do check up on their exes.
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
22 Apr 11
Yeah, social networking does make it easier for all of us to look for people xP
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
I don't care about them anymore. They're not part of my life anymore. But I have to admit, I'm just like you. Sometimes I just peek at their Facebook profiles and see how ugly they are now. Haha. 
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
20 Apr 11
I have to admit I do it too:)). I don't know why. it's a matter of curiosity I guess...there is this guy that I used to like with who i do this (check his facebook)
@SHEREE1978 (39)
• United States
22 Apr 11
I only check up on an ex if he and I ended on good terms and I still care deeply for him. Otherwise, an ex is just an ex. Lol
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Well, me too sometimes :-) But lately, one ex actually is adding me on fb but I don't look at his name, lol. He's stalking at me! Lol.
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
20 Apr 11
It depends on how bad the breakup was, like if it was just mutual nobody really broke anybody's hearts than yea I still keep contact and even check up on him at times. But, if he cheated on me, or we argued a lot and he broke my heart to the point where I couldn't get over him for days then yea, I could care less about them and you won't ever find me talking about them again.
@ofabiania (421)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
honestly, no.. i also don't know why and most people won't believe me when i say this but it's the truth.. guess i prefer not hearing any news about him.. LOL
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
22 Apr 11
Lol it's cause people have a hard time believing stuff =P but I do believe you don't =)
@soccerbai123 (274)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
yes, i get that feeling especially when we just broke up. i would still think what they are doing and if they are doing well with their life and then i would tell my self, snap out of it, you may be thinking about him but is he doing the same thing.
