"Can you imagine a more stressful in-law to have other than the Queen?
By adnileb
@adnileb (5276)
Philippines
April 20, 2011 11:10am CST
...What are you in-laws like?" -- as quoted from one one site (www.people.com) pertaining to the meet-up of Middleton and Queen Elizabeth.
The real discussion here is "what are your in-laws like?"
Do you have a good relationship with them? Or the other way around?
Some say, theirs are like, um, well--
I Yes, I have met my future in-laws, and they're kind. Don't have much negative comments as of now on them actually. So I don't have much to share too. But if you have some, please share it here. If it's too naughty of them, just be careful for they might read it. 



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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
20 Apr 11
Hello adnileb
Although I was married once before, I never had the opportunity to know a mother in-law or father in-law. They had passed on long before I entered the equation. As for my boyfriend of almost 7 years now I can say that my boyfriend's mother and I have a wonderful relationship. She lives in another State but communicates with me often. She at age 72 has traveled the day in a half just to come and comfort me during hard times.
I have heard of many who have had issues with their mother-in-laws and or father-in-laws and I can't imagine what that is like. It has to be quite difficult.
Oh and no I am not just saying because I fear she maybe reading.
, at least, lol, I don't think so. But I will add I love her very much. (**added disclaimer).
It really has to be difficult for some because loving the son/daughter of their has to be hard to be torn between the two.



@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Hi HWG..
LOL on the **added disclaimer.
That's nice to hear you're having a good time with your future mother-in-law(MIL). I wonder was is it like to you with the first one (I mean you first in-laws).
Just heard a story from my officemate this morning, she's so mad at her MIL because of money. Her MIL asks for money even though she(MIL) knows they're having a hard time on it.
So I think "money" adds up to the problem. Really the root of all evils. 



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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
20 Apr 11
hehehe, had to throw in the disclaimer because I am going to Arkansas for one month to see her and while I am there she will see me myLotting and for sure will want to join. She is the love her or hate her type of person but truly she means well.
I actually did not have a relationship with my ex's parents because they had passed long before I met him. From what I understand I would have loved them as I can see that because she had 18 kids, all of which my ex being the only dysfunctional one the rest were truly grand, especially the 14 girls.
Yeah I have heard of so many stories with in-laws it often frightened me to ever have one. I think that is why I handled my boyfriends mom with kit gloves. Slid right in and made sure she liked me and well, I know she loves me. I am the only one who will sit and listen to her for hours on end.
Oma means grandma, so if she ever reads this I do love her. Just reassuring. lol

@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Oh, I see.
Hope she joins here too.
It amazed that your ex has 17 siblings?? Gosh, I wonder how his parents managed them. But so sad he's the only dysfunctional and maybe the reason why you two are separated?
Well, have a nice one-month vacation with your future MIL...
Oma is korean word, right?




@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
28 Apr 11
Well when I was married, my ex-wife did not have a good relationship with her own parents. So she did not have a good relationship with my parents. That bothered me. Now, the girl I am with loves my parents and I love her parents. It is now a wonderful world.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
21 Apr 11
Now that you mention it-I can't imagine a worse Mother-in-law than Queen Elizabeth! Firstly she is 85 and set in her ways, and she is totally unapproachable. No commoner could possibly get on her good side (even if she had one)! She always has always had everything her way,(even the hiway! She won't let Charles be King - Not that I can blame her, because he's a Dithering Dong! She never liked Princess Diana and many people have never forgiven her for that, myself included!
@nsawork (28)
• India
21 Apr 11
actually what you have said is about inlaws actually i dont have any but from what i have seen inlaws are a very good people as they help you with the most of the time with what ever you may bee in the need of and also this is most important when your wife needs their support
@ohsodianne (433)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
in my old dormitory, my dorm manager used to backstab her daughter in law a lot. it was really terrible because us dormers always hear about it. then whenever the dorm manager's son and this woman have a fight, both my dormmanager, his husband and their son all gang up on her.. i don't know how she takes all that crap..
@sender621 (14890)
• United States
20 Apr 11

@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Hahaha! Do as stated. You will feel you're really talking to a Queen and not to an in-law.
But in real life, like that of Kate Middleton, I think Queen Elizabeth is not that stressful enough to handle.
And surely Kate has found ways to make it a formal family affair with to royalty. 



@darkridersoumya (199)
• India
20 Apr 11
This is really interesting,you should at least she some Indian television soaps and see what exactly is a stressful mother in law and what she is capable of doing.Though they exxagerate a bit still it is not completely false the Indian mother in laws are definitely possessive to their kid and usually do not have a very good rapport with their daughter in law.But things are changing though thanks to you westerners...
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
Thanks for the FR soumya...
I bet I can't understand an Indian soap unless translated in English.
Well, it's normal for parents to be possessive. Sometimes I think they'll be missing their kids when they will have their families that's why they act that way. But what I don't understand is, why would their relationship between their son- or daughter-in-law will not be good? Like you said "do not have very good rapport."


@chocokreme (319)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
My in-laws are not that nice to me. Especially my mil and sil. They trash talk about me behind my back though im not doing anything nasty to them. Still i pay respect to my mil. I am keeping a polite distance to avoid arguements.
