Just wondering.. why do some single women stay with cheaters?
By takenbyrey29
@takenbyrey29 (51)
Philippines
April 20, 2011 11:04pm CST
The fact that some women stay with cheaters keeps me wondering. I dont know the reason why do they have to deal with cheaters. Is it they love the man so much or they love themselves too much that they dont want to let go of that man even he's a cheater? sigh :(
4 responses
@albert911 (168)
• Thailand
26 Apr 11
Because they completely fell for them (the partner), they've become addicted to them and do whatever it takes, however they may suffer just to stay on and continue the relationship. A complete paradox, they do it for the sake of self-sacrifies, suffering, giving them completely up. In many cases, this "addiction" becomes worse and worse. And worst of all, they enjoy themselves allthough some "complain" to their friends how they are off, but in the heart of hearts they are truly happy. Go and figure.....
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
My analogy is that many or almost all of us women have always wanted to be the only girl that changed a man, that is why women are drawn to the bad boys, even. We thinkthat we could earn that title, be the only woman out of the dozens our man dated we of all has changeed a man, Because we stick up with them and has not given up.
@CandyRayne (458)
• United States
21 Apr 11
Hello, some of the cheating men make the women believe that "they" are the best the girl can get. It's very sad. Even abusive men do the same thing. Or the woman believes that he will change, wich rarely ever happens. I just hope these women can regain their strength and move on. Or seek the professional help.
@kinkar19 (7)
• India
21 Apr 11
A popular saying is "dont judge a man/woman by hearing from others, because he/she can be unfaithful to others but faithful to you." In that case whom you do think a cheater may be the man is faithful or the woman believes that he is faithful to her. Otherwise there is no reason to stay with a cheater.