Will you still love me...even if you can not love me ?

Hi Jai! I feel that you have written a very beautiful and touching poem. I loved it.. You see it is quite difficult to mend the so called broken heart. Life is like a river. As the water of river keeps flowing our days of life keeps moving. If someone has left has and gone away, we just cannot recall him/her. We need to adjust with the circumstances and sooner we do it the better. Keeping ourseleves immersed in the memories of our love, who has gone away from our life, is of no use. I know we cannot stop the flow of thoughts about him/her, yet we need to move ahead. best of luck to you. Have a great weekend!

I won't ever give up on the one i love, sweetie. We might be miles apart, but that won't stop me, ever. I don't give a flying fig for culture, religion and all that other crap. Love for me is more important than that. You have to fight for the one you love. Nothing should ever stand in your way. Love don't ask you what and who you want. Just go with your heart and forget all that other things that tend to upset you. Got me??

What you are asking dear? Better start some puzzles

well didi. I have no girl friend and love, hence i dont say anything here but i think once i fell in love ( i am not sure was it love?). I write that story on my series. Here i am able to understand your feelings. lady 15 is released. Have a nice day.

Hi di Never though there would be a discussion where I cannot participate "for those who has same experience or lost their love due to those reasons written above"

aawwww.. i'm still in trauma when it comes to that matter.. i guess "maybe sometimes love just ain't enough.." but i like that song, "how can i not love you" by joy enriquez..is she a filipina..?

I am sort of coward for love. When there is some difficulty, I would like to let it go. My boyfriend and I are like some pathetic couples in shakespeare's novel. His mother sort of considered his son as his lover. Thus, she would rather die be together with his son for a whole life. I really did wanna leave him for this situation. However, so many things happened...I went to another country since I really couldn't stand his mother anymore. He was here beside me now. I don't know what will happen in the futuer..If things get worse, I will be brave and love my life anyway.

Hello jaiho I guess my ex was in a fantasy world, feeling what all she wanted just by thinking that she is in love, she needed the feeling of being in love rather than me. And when she felt i was being too available and binding (as she says she felt at times) . It has now become obvious that she never understood the meaning of commitment. She is very immature and awesomely stubborn. I can hardly do anything but for her to hurt me like this and leave me in the end, just because she was not getting what she wanted from me. I gave her everything i could. My love story is bizarre and weird, because it had to end just like that, we were in for two years of relationship and then i felt something changing in her, she wasn't paying me much attention and one day she just says she was wanting to get away from me for months. I give up... I can't love someone like that, who doesn't know how much hurting they can get. Honestly, i am happy this ended because she never gave me that reassurance of our commitment and i always felt like i was the one who was bearing the burden of keeping this relationship working for both of us. She will however (i hope) understand what she did to me. No, i don't want her to feel guilty but i want her to know, how it feels to break someone's heart like that. Honestly, getting over my ex would have been a lot more harder had she been some understanding girl. But anyways, no break ups end without one of the hearts being broken, and in this case it was my heart and i don't even know if she felt the guilt somewhere inside her. Only one thing makes me keep going on. That i was true to myself and that i gave her true love. I feel good about myself for the person i am and i am sure God has someone better for me.

Hi jaiho: I believe in the power of love and I tyhink that all these obstacles can be overcome so my answer will be yes. If we both love each other I think that we can fight against the circumstances. I know this sounds too idealistic but I don't find a good reason to stop loving a person that maybe is the one for you just because society consider that you shouldn't love him/her. ALVARO

I'm no love guru to utter sweet words round the clock ... all i need is someone who loves me for what i'm ... she gotta accept the good and bad in me! As of fighting for love ... i dont know about others but i would NEVER BACK DOWN no matter what. Cowards quit halfway ... i ain't one of them Great day.

Jai beta I get so emotional while reading the poem and the contents, you are ventilating your feelings in all your discussions, i am sure you feel light, i was married in 1966, she was 16 then, no love affaris, wish i could have some affairs before marriage, but there is no chance now, nor i want it.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

Without desire of getting Giving is LOve Without wish of returning Doing is LOVe Without feel of sadness Smiling is Love LOve is nt in you Nt depend on any particular Eternal peace eveif crowd or loud voice sorrounded you Rainbow's colour blinks whether day or night arround you Frealessly,independently,confidentaly Go ahead by you called Love !!! It's nt consistent in a person,on a thing or within a concept LOve is passion for which one can go across all baoundraies And cross beyond limit.

I dont want to give up on someone that I love but if ever my family is strongly disagreeing with me and does not like my lover, I would then think deeply if my lover is good for me. I believe my family will help me to whom to choose as my partner in life.

Love and relationships should be build on trust, faith and committment. The physical "love" is just icing on the cake, which may melt, dissapear or change over time. As long as the underlying three (above) principles are still honoured, people are still "in love" in a relationship. Tine should be able to overcome your distress, yet your wounds remain for all the time to come. "Better to have lost love - than never to have loved at all! - the wise saying goes.

hi jaiho, In love we will always encounter hindrance and will struggle a lot only true love can survive You know why i hate arrange marriage because once i almost fall in love to an Indian Guy (Shiby i can explain this LOL)i know the feelings are mutual but sad to say they have this hundred year old tradition (no offense meant) that he cannot break so i just throw all my feelings for him Anyway i just hope Shiby can break this tradition for me have a nice day!