being bald and sexy... are you?

@obe212003 (2299)
Philippines
April 21, 2011 8:38am CST
my brother gave me a razor... for the past 10 years, i have been suffering from HIV [hair is vanishing], lol!... yesterday i decided to sport a new haircut using the razor and since it is summer, i decided to go for the bald-look just leaving the trimmed mustache and beard. what surprising was a remark from my wife, "you look sexy!", lol! do you think being bald is sexy?
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13 responses
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
That depends on the person. It depends on the shape of someone's face and the head. If the back of your head is flat, being bald won't likely make you look good. My live-in partner doesn't look good when he made himself bald. Though the the back of his round, I don't like seeing him bald. His face was rounded so when he became bald, I told him that he looks like a ball haha. LOL. I was really blunt about it and I don't want to be mean to him. Luckily he was not offended when I said that he's not sexy being bald. We even made fun of it. I pretended that I was playing basketball, then his head was the ball nnd I was dribbling his head like a ball LOL. He's sexier to me if he has a short and clean hair cut. If your wife finds you sexy, maybe being bald fits you :D
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
Maybe you're wife is telling the truth :) Why don't you post your picture here in myLot so we can see it ourselves LOL
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
i got a round oval head, so would that be good? lol! anyways, i think or i guess my wife was just giving me reassurance that no matter what, she adores me!, lol!
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
There are those who really look sexy when they're bald. Men are better looking if they're sporting a bald or skin head look rather than a thinning hair kind of baldness. I do find a lot of men with beard and mustache sexy without the any hair on their head. I have one friend whom i find sexy with a shaved head too. I don't know exactly what's with the bald look in men, but they really do look great and sexier in that look. So when your wife told you you look sexy, that was really a compliment.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
yeah, it's the only compliment i need, lol! but honestly, my crowning glory vanished and replaced by a shining light, and then being appreciated by the one person i really look forward of getting an honest opinion is all that matters...lol!
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
22 Apr 11
Awww... well... I prefer hair honestly but I have to say what you did is probably much more sexy than pretending your hair isn't vanishing and combing it over a large bald spot lol.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
yeah, i quite agree! no need to hide..lol!
• United States
21 Apr 11
lol on how you started your discussion. I am happy that your wife finds it pleasing. There are many who look great and sexy with the bald look. While some kind of look scary. I guess it depends on how their head is shaped. I have also seen some women who have cut their hair so close to their head that they actually looked pretty great.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
thanks.. my wife's compliment is more than enough, so i think i'm sexy, lol!
• Argentina
21 Apr 11
Of course! Why not? It all depends on tastes, but if you're hot, you hair doesn't matter! Obviously, your wife thinks you're hot, so don't worry about your hair... :)
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
frankly i am not worried.. being flattered with such a statement of being sexy by my wife is enough, lol!
@apolinar (25)
• Mexico
21 Apr 11
I think being sexy has to do more with the attitude than with the looks.. well, as long as you're not a monster. However, bald looks makes some people look younger and your wife wanted to compliment you onthat... I hope
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
it's the first impression based on physical features couple with the so-called "attitude" for me defines 'sexy', lol! Anyways as my wife would say, "It is in the eye of the beholder."
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
I remember a friend. Who always is attracted to guys who shave their heads! Its not a personal preference for me but just recently, i have a huge crush on this guy i met at work and boy if is soo hot and bald! He looked manly!
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
kindly introduce me to your friend, lol! i guess you're right, it does look me more like a "mean machine", lol!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
I remember a friend. Who always is attracted to guys who shave their heads! Its not a personal preference for me but just recently, i have a huge crush on this guy i met at work and boy if is soo hot and bald! He looked so manly!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 Apr 11
Hi. obe212003. I have seen many men that have bald heads. Only a few of them look good with one. I don't really like to see my husband keep his hair cut bald on his head. He has to cut it completely down during the summer, because he has a dry scalp problem. When the heat hits his head, he will start to have dandruff and itchiness. Your wife is so sweet for loving and enjoying your bald head.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
you're definitely right about my wife enjoying my new look!, lol! for sure, i just to have accept the fact that i'm bald and be happy with it [i'm not getting any younger!]... try aloe vera on your husband's dry scalp and itching, i tried it before.. though it eradicated the itching and dryness, i still lost my hair, lol!
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
22 Apr 11
I don't particularly like my man bald, but sexy is in the eyes of the beholder. I think being bald has definitely come into fashion because so many men were losing their hair and the remaining hair on their heads were not very attractive and one day a guy said, "the heck with it." and shave his head. Hence, started a trend.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
hi obe... That HIV (hair is vanishing) thingy makes me laugh out loud! I think being bald is sexy! You're wifey is right! :) My Mom always likes to see my Dad as bald.. Maybe because its very clean in the eyes of others or something like that!
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
yeah, you said it right..sexy! lol! but the beard and mustache sort of makes me a villain as you see in the movies, lol! anyways, thanks for reassuring my confidence back, lol!
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
21 Apr 11
She might see you good with your new looks that's why. You're looking gorgeous with your new haircut she might used another word to fit in with the compliment.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
the compliment was flattering especially since it seems to give me some confidence of myself, although it sounded as a reassurance, it felt good... thanks!
• Australia
22 Apr 11
OMG! HIV??? You definitely got me laughing hard. First when i went through your discussion, i was like 'oh! so sad, he is suffering from HIV' and then i went through it again and i am like 'Oh gosh! Hair is Vanishing'... But yes, it is still sad that you are suffering from HIV. But you did great by shaving you hair off. My uncle was sick of HIV too and then he shaved his hair off. He looks great these days. I hope this is the case with you too. Because it depends on the structure of head and face to come to a conclusion if bald is sexy or not!