Destruction or Inspiration
By marianne
@ckciasigurl (2081)
Italy
April 21, 2011 9:07am CST
Hi to all of you i just want to know
if what is true in this quote "boyfriend is a Inspiration not a Destruction"
this quote for me is good but as i can see in this generation for today
many teenager if they are argue or problem with their relation ship it
is affected in their studies..so is it still an INspiration?
wats yours he he or advice or any suggestions
6 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
usually at a young age, it is better not get into a relationship and better concentrate on studies... if you think you're mature enough to handle an inspiration that seems to encourage you to do more and makes you a better person would surely be a significant factor...
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
3 May 11
hi obe212003
yes i understand, you are right , but some teenagers do not think that
they cannot handle a relation ship + study but still they continue
teenagers have the same point of view we cannot change that .
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
3 May 11
it surely depends on the proper perspective. majority of teenagers are more into discovering and enjoying what is "in" and more so very careless and unappreciative of advice from their elders as they are more into with their peers. On the other hand, there are those who has a mature understanding of where they stand and surely has a sense of direction of where they want to lead their lives based on their aspiration and dreams. so it is your choice. if you think having a boyfriend is an inspiration, then go for it. if not, then better concentrate on yourself of how to improve and aspire for a better future.
@jinkeemie (21)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
Teenagers do not usually think wise. They are hot blooded, i mean agresive. They dont care what they are going through intering in such relationship. When we say teenager they are young in mind,so when having a bf's/gf's It is usually end up with destruction!
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
3 May 11
hi jinkeemie
it is my observation too, that teenagers are always with there friends
and there friends is either a good or bad influences in this stage also
they developed there skills and some maturity
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
23 Apr 11
yeah your right but there are some teenagers who cannot handle there relationship and there school if they have a problem they bring it to school and they cannot concentrate anymore
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
21 Apr 11
The phrase is either inspiration or destruction, it depends on how youngster deal with it. When the teens use their boyfriend as their inspiration in their studies and for them to strive more to achieve their ambitions its good. But if the reason why they were not finished their studies and get married early while studying that is destruction. To have boyfriend while studying is just right but you have to know your limitations, I was once a student and I was once inloved, lol.
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
23 Apr 11
i agree and i really like it hope some teenagers can read also this one
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
21 Apr 11
I think for a lot of people this proves to be true. That their boyfriend/girlfriend proves to be an inspiration. There are those however that are discouraging and proves to not be a beneficial partner. In my relationship my partner tries to be positive. I would say though that for the most part my partner has a pessimistic view of life and so sometimes that rubs off in how he views things. A person has to maintain an inspirational attitude in order to be able to continue to encourage others when one is down.
