Sometimes I lose my sef-control.! why am I like that?

@kwylima (451)
United States
April 21, 2011 6:31pm CST
Sometimes I feel like I am kind of crazy..I don't know exacly..no no..don't think that I lose my self control and go scream on streets or get talking crazy..I mean sometimes I am so sick of those bad situations in my life or sick of those people who are my friends just because I have something or I can do something... Yesterday I saw cried more than one hour (what is stupid),just because somebody said somethings that I didn't want to hear..and I didn't say anything I didn't stand up for myself. Then when I was by myself in my room I remembered it and I lose my self control I cried a lot for nothing.. why are we like that? (I know it doesn't happen just to me)
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
22 Apr 11
e can get pulled too far in one direction. Control i eaily lot along the ay.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
22 Apr 11
I think you're a person full of emotions who is deeply affecte when somebody else says something bad and totally unjust;unfortunately,there are many people who say bad things about others for no reason,usually out of envy or because they enjoy hurting others.I think yopu should try as much as possible to be indifferent to such people and show them that you really don't care about them;if they feel ignored and they realize they can't hurt you they will probably stop talking about you.I also think you must think about the positive things in your life and the true friends which can help you when you feel unhappy and make you smile again,you should be in their company whenever you need them to encourage you and cheer you up.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Apr 11
hi kwylima you do that because guess what you are human. we humans havc geelings and we can get hurt or angry or cry.cryingdoes release tesnion and can make you feel better for awhile but to face the person who hurt you and let out to this person"I am not going to stand here and take that abuse from you so shut up or I am just walking away.bye now" then turn and walk away as you defended yourself and now want to leave it all behind. we are women and women are emotional
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
We all experience bad days, we all experience the blues sometimes.And as matured people we have to behave properly when we do.I know it is kindly of silly to behave when we are really madly crazy , but that is must do so we don't regret later about how we behaved while we were freaking out. Crying has been my stress management...I do freak out sometimes and yes I lose my control but that is very very seldom and i have regretted losing my manners.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
I don't think that what bursting in tears is an act of craziness. I don't think you are kinda crazy at all. It's perfectly normal to get hurt and burst into tears when somebody does something to us. I am a very sensitive girl and sometimes when people say something bad right into my face sometimes i get caught off guard and couldn't fight back so i just burst into tears. So don't worry when you sometimes lose control because it's just normal.
@hcaiyu (2)
• China
22 Apr 11
You can tall more whith your frends.Maybe you fell so hard in your life.
• United States
22 Apr 11
I think we do it as as way to release the bottled up stress. I would hate to not release and cause burdened depression. So as long as we are not causing self inflicted harm and or endangering anyone I don't see why we can release our feelings. It is okay to do so from time to time but trying to find a solution after the release is always wise.
@misterMR (796)
• Philippines
22 Apr 11
Everyone in the world hates these bad situations. Whether or not it has something to do with humans, these bad things could really creep one off. I remembered those times that I feel like quitting and losing my patience at the same time. I try to calm myself down, but it is really hard. I only cry whenever I get boiling hot about some things that were not meant to be like that, but it sort of happened and I would end up getting angry first.