how to make a relationship last?

I am not sure there is such a thing as a 'perfect couple,' but I sure hope that I am wrong. I would be wonderful to think that there are two people who are matched perfectly for each other; they don't argue, they read each other's thoughts, they enjoy the exact same things,etc. Where is the fire, the excitement, or contrast? I think variety is the spice of life. I don't think that being exactly like your partner will guarantee a lasting relationship; somebody is going to get bored and go out and find some excitement. I think being yourself and letting your partner be him or herself, with you accepting their ways, it the better bet that the relationship will be healthy.

Once you are in a relationship, there are three basic steps to making it last. 1) Wake up in the relationship 2) Go to sleep in the relationship 3) Don't do anything to screw it up in between!

Loyalty and trust, it what keeps a relationship healthy you also need to be dedicated to your partner. Being is a relationship thats lasted almost 3 years :).

Perfect relationships are not achieved by perfect couples. I dont believe couples already started to be perfect, they worked out for it. They worked out to make their relationship last long. It takes times and effort so couples should be patient enough to deal with it.

I dont think there is a secret formula in making a relationship last. I think striving to understand the other person instead of only understanding yourself most of the time. Also by putting God in your relationship and also having something in common such as work or a recreational activity.

Having a single answer to that question may indeed make you wealthier than Bill Gates! Everybody keeps looking for it, trying, experimenting - but what it may ultimately come down to is failiure and disappointment. A determination, a neverending wish and comittment to make things work out may be one of the keys. One of many........

There is no secret formula because no two people are alike and no two relationships are alike. Different things work for different people. The only thing I think is universal is that the pillars of a healthy relationship are compatibility, companionship and compromise.

There is no secret , it take work. Both partners Have to Want to stay together and Have to be willing to work at it. It helps if they Like each other. I mean they are friends along with being lovers. Buy smooth and easy it is not.

There's really no explanation on how to make a relationship last. For me, a relationship without "drama" at all is so boring. Everyone has to experience drama even once in a while. A relationship without drama doesn't mean it's a smooth sailing relationship or a perfect relationship. If they're always good at each other and they always do and share and give what each other wants, time will come and one of them will get bored. That's just how I think. Of course trust, honesty, and love are really important factors. But aside from that, one of the best things to do is to be happy in the relationship. Like they say, a happy girlfriend makes a happy boyfriend. Or a happy boyfriend makes a happy girlfriend.

No, there is no secret formula to making a relationship work. If there is, then many couples out there would have used it. But that is also what makes being in a relationship exciting, challenging, and rewarding at the same time. But for us, we have been able to last nearly 5 years together now, and the key is to live it one day at a time. We try to treasure every day that we spend, cherish it, and learn to enjoy it. Some couples tend to neglect the time they spend with each other and it kills the romance in the relationship. The more you learn to appreciate your partner, the more you can give value to your relationship and work hard to making sure that it will work.

A relationhip take care, trut, love and friendhip. All qualitie are needed to make a relationhip go on and remain omething good in our life.

well i was with my ex for 12 and a half years and you could say i hated him after about 6 or 7 years and have no idea why i stayed with him for so long. i have 2 kids with him being the father unfortunatly and i really, really, really hate him and hate having to be polite to him infront of the kids. i have no idea what i smooth relationship is like but would love to find out.

Quarrel as often as need be but forgive each other even more - 70x7 times says the Lord. Why quarrel as often - because in doing so, you get to know each other better. And forgive? Well... it's a must if you want your relationship to last.

theres no perfect relationship,every relationship will encounter trials.you just have to be strong.patience,understanding,and honesty is the key to make the relationship last..

Well I am sorry that I wont be able to give you a positive impression on this subject cause I am having a problem with my love life right now. I dont know, I guess it is all up to fate.Cause a lot of people are really with their feelings and yet they end up broken hearted. Sometimes feelings are not reciprocated and sometimes you just can't love someone who is pursuing you with all sincerity. The right formula, I really dont know anymore.I guess its all in the hands of fate and destiny.

For me, relationship between couples is a very sensitive issue.I guess all husbands and wives want's their relationship to last longer like what they have promised during their marriage.Trust, respect and understanding each others needs are some factors for a relationships to last long.

Impress him. Surprise him. Cheat not. Hit not. In simpler terms these are the most important pieces of advice on keeping a relationship. But sometimes, no matter how strictly you follow these commandments, relationships still die. Why? because we tend to overlook simpler but not any less significant things we have to remember when we are the other half of the couple. Here are some simple ways to make a relationship last; a) when you make mistakes say sorry, b)when your partner make mistakes say sorry - point is, it wouldn't hurt to get your share of the blame sometimes. After all your partners. c)Don't self pity d)Always say I love you e) Don't get attached f) Manage the drama g)Spend nights together h)Know the little things about your partner i)Don't overpower your partner j) Work it out - Every couple has their ups and downs. And when you encounter the down side of it, you don't give up just like that. You talk. You listen. You weigh things over. You work it out. Keeping a relationship is not that easy. It's challenging, at the same time rewarding and fulfilling. Why? Because you don't do it alone. The good thing about being in a relationship is that there is someone you can work with, and the best part is, it's that someone you love. stay inlove :)

Every relationship goes through a difficult period, it does not you have to give up your relationship. A good relationship needs a little understanding, little comprimise, both need to realise things and be sorry for it.

Hi there, Welcome to MyLot! From my personal experience, i would say trust is the base of a relationship. You need to understand each other's needs and adjust yourself accordingly. Arguments are significant part of a relationship. I would not consider a relationship to be perfect if there is no argument. You need to have arguments in order to understand each other better. By argument, I don't mean physical fights and rude quarrellings. It is rather some sort of discussion when each individual's ideas vary. I don't think there is any secret formula to make the relationship last longer but you need to understand each other's needs and change yourself accordingly!

Be ready to pay sincerely,trust on each other,remember relationship can not last long either of you lose confidence in another so give both private space and support the opposite side from your bottom of heart.of course be honest and loyal to each other,think more of the opposite....besides i think life without fresh things must can be boring and breed contraditions,so make some emotional appeal and occasionally give surprise...make change for him&her,let another feel your love...nice day,my friend