Your mom is having an affair with your girlfriend's dad... what would you do?!

Most of the time the truth will always set you free, I mean your girlfriend deserves to know the truth so that you can figure it out what to do together. The problem was not for both of you though your both affected with it.

Wow, that's a comlicated one. Well, i think i would surely let her know the truth but i would surely not break the relationship with her because of the parents. I really do not know what to do in thins kind of a situation actually!!! if talking to both the parents help.

This should not have an effect on your relationship with your girlfriend. The real problem is with your mother and her father. The problem you have however is if your girlfriend's father is still married to her mother it will devastate her to learn of this. What you can do however, and in fact should do, is go to your mother and let her know you are aware of this. It is then up to your mother to do the right thing. If you simply tell your girlfriend and then let it go you are not taking responsibility for it and may very well hurt your girlfriend unnecessarily. I would ask how you found this out if you are the only one that knows. You also have to consider your father. How will this effect him. Good chance they will divorce. Make absolutely sure that you are right about this and then approach your mother. If she will not change this then you are in a real pickle because no matter what you do you are going to hurt someone.

It is not a good idea why would mom ever do that? I am not sure it happen in reality but if I'm wrong I would wonder all day why she have to find another guy even my girlfriend's dad. The questions that may arise are, have I done something to her that is not fair that she's doing that to perplex me? Is her action really have a basis? Haven't I proven myself that well? And then I might take the time to let her know how disgusting a mother she is if she do not stop what she does. Only two things shall be the case: she prove her selfishness or her conscience will take over and change her for the better. One other thing, I almost cannot disagree believing that the transition to a normal mother will go without a hitch. As a child I am responsible for her emotional well being and I would be spending time with helping her recover which even though it's not natural for a boy like me, I have to hit right over the face. The bottom line: it's a huge burden much worse than I could ever imagine when a mother play that card. She has to know not at all times that I'd help her when she needed me. Just the behavior itself brings to my mind sending her to a mental institution.