5 signs that youae with the wrong person
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
April 23, 2011 7:46pm CST
Yes. In the same article about how to tell you have met your perfect match, they had the 5 signs that this relationship will end. Here they are:
You roll your eyes when you argue. Meaning you do not respect what your partner says.
You can't handle the uncomfortable silences.
Your outing are full of distractions. Like going to a sporting event
where you don't have to be one on one.
You find yourself criticizing little things about each other.
You want to deal with each other when the chips are up, or when things are going well.
I agree with Every one of these. If I can just tune him out , It is over. If I don't respect what I Do hear, it is over. If Just being with him isn't comfortable , why stay? I think for every baseball game or movie , there should be a date where you just sit and talk. If I feel that I Have to nitpick about the little things , then the relationship won't last or Should Not last.And lastly , Why would I want a guy who seems to disappear when things aren't good. I know I love someone I would Want to help make things better . What about you? Is there anything sign you would like to add? Delete?
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@Margajoe (4728)
• Germany
24 Apr 11
Well yes, I find myself doing that.
The guy I am with right now is really only a good friend of mine.
But I was stupid enough to go to bed with him after 5 months of a good friendship.
Now he thinks we have a real relationship.
It is sad in a way, he is very good to me.
Gets me my grocery's and wants me to feel good.
But he gets on my nerves!
He stars at me, that bothers me.
When he eats, he annoys me.
I complain about every little thing.
I don't want to.
Finally a guy is good to me, but I don't love him the way he loves me.
It is definitely the wrong person , again!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
24 Apr 11
You have top break this bad news to him gently. If you don't love him, let him go. You true love is out there and so is his.Good Luck.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Apr 11
Make a daytime date, and tell him as plainly as you can that you don't love him romantically. Be firm but not mean. If he is a Real friend , he will be hurt but he will stop. If he Still doesn't Hear you , then you have to cut him out of your life. Stop All contact. And tell a friend what has happened. You will need them to support you And be a witness if he gets " weird"
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
20 Aug 11
Right on. As for disagreements, I respect my partner, but not when he immaturely overreacts. I make it a point never to immaturely overreact myself, to show him it can be don't.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
24 Apr 11
That is a very good list! And I agree with them too.....also if you can't sit and just talk about how your day was....then I would wonder too. My son and his wife? She tried to quit smoking when I did...I asked him how she was doing and he said I don't know..and I said...how come you don't even know something simple about your wife like that....the next time I asked he knew!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Apr 11
It's a guy thing. Unless his wife told him That day she was having trouble Or that things were going great, he wouldn't know because he didn't ask!
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Apr 11
Hi sarah ruth beth: I think they are good examples of how a relation is not working right. All of them mean that you don't feel comfortable with your partner. Moreover, they show how the person don't like to be with the person they have chosen. In these cases it's better to talk and find a way to fix it or just break up because if your relationship doesn't make you happy you have to do something and stop suffering and also making suffer him/her. Thanks for sharing with us this list.
ALVARO
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Apr 11
You are welcome. I think it is sad that many people are staying in relationships like this one.
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