had a fight with one of by friend...what to do....
@himanshuorange (1145)
India
April 24, 2011 1:33am CST
hey friends we often fight with our friends, but sometimes we feel that not to talk to them in future. yes one of my friend is also like that she never cares about me or about anything i do for her... actually she is just being my friend because she wants her various works done for free like assignments and presentations and all other stuffs...actually she is good for nothing.... now since we have again got into a fight but now i am thinking not to talk to her again in future ........friends please tell me what to do.......
7 responses
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
24 Apr 11
I think that sometimes it becomes apparent that a relationship may have taken its course. In my opinion friendships are meant to enhance our lives and if you have got to the stage with your friend that it feels more like a burden than a good thing it may mean it is time to let it go. You could have a talk with this person and let her know how you feel...I wish you luck...
@himanshuorange (1145)
• India
24 Apr 11
hey that was really a goo idea in fact i will do it for sure........
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@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 11
Hi Himan!.
If I see from your description she is just using you, a friendship should take and give. You can ask your self 'is this person was I think as friend act like friend and does she give joy in our friendship' if not leave it.
I think many woman uses their friendship with man especially when she is a beautiful woman for their benefit. I think we all deserve a sincere friendship and if you allow her to use you its just show you are to kind, and deserve have a better friend.
@Anitismo (229)
• Bahamas
24 Apr 11
friends don't always see eye to eye. but the good thing about friends is they always got your back. sometimes a little distances can help you understand the situation a little better. try siting down and calmly talking out your feeling about each other; try to be truthful, lying will sometimes make the problem worst. but if u have a person who does not give anything back not even a kind word of the feeling of support or a calming atmosphere to just relax and be yourself, that is not a friend that is a poser and posers will eventually destroy your self-esteem. hope this helps.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
I don't think that girl is a true friend of yours, but it is still not good to be at war with someone.. It all depends on you, what do you really feel? Has she never been a god friend to you at all? maybe you should just focus on who your real friends are and give importance to them and not think about her anymore.
@heavenrenz (190)
•
25 Apr 11
The first thing you should do is to reconcile with her try to forgive and forget about everything after that give her space to think if she really cares for you as a friend as the saying goes... If you really love her as a friend set her free and when she comes back to you she would probably your real friend.
@zzzxxzzz (1)
• Bulgaria
24 Apr 11
It looks like you don't really feel your friend like a real one. In such situations I give my friends one last chance. I think you should do the same and see what will happen. If you don't feel happy with your friend it is sure that he/she is not a such. I think you should consider your friends better because it looks like that your friend is just using you. It might be just because you are angry. Just give her another chance and then decide =]
@Bhemzky (423)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
For me, try to talk to her again and explain and make her understand the situation the both of you are in. Maybe she just doesn't understand you at all. And ,aybe she is misunderstood too. Situations like this needs careful understanding and good communication. So talking to her would be the best advice for me. Who knows after you explain to her everything she'll come to her senses and make things right this time. There is no harm in trying so go friend! Talk to her! there is nothing to lose. At least you tried.