Which is worse someone flashing you or someone peeping on you?
@spiderlizard22 (3444)
United States
April 24, 2011 9:01am CST
I don't know which people find worse. I don't know if you find a stranger just open their clothes or reveal their genitals to you is worse then someone seeing you naked or using the bathroom. Mind you the flasher is someone you are not attracted to and body parts look gross. Tell me of your opinions. I say a peeping Tom is worse because of privacy. But it can be disturbing to see someone flashing you causing you to feel disgust.
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@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
24 Apr 11
i would have to say someone flashing me. ya it would be creepy to know that someone is watching me in the bathroom. i would rather take some one watching me rather then seeing someone that's not even attractive flashing me. there are things in life that i wouldn't want to see and that would be one of them. at least with a peeping tom you can do things to prevent them form watching you, while as for the flasher you have no time to prevent seeing them flash you.
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@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
25 Apr 11
I agree! I mean it turns me on to reveal myself to a new lover but if I have that choice taken away, it ceases to be sexy.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
25 Apr 11
Hi. spiderlizard. I had a guy flash me when I was in college in 1997. It was so disgusting. I was so disgusted at what I had seen.
I mean, at this time, I was in a relationship with my boyfriend and he is the only one that I loved then. I did not want to see another man's genitals and private area parts. Only my boyfriend's. If someone peeped at me through a window or a door, I would feel very sleazy and I would feel as if they have invaded my privacy. Either feeling, is not such a wonderful feeling, that is for sure.
I mean, at this time, I was in a relationship with my boyfriend and he is the only one that I loved then. I did not want to see another man's genitals and private area parts. Only my boyfriend's. If someone peeped at me through a window or a door, I would feel very sleazy and I would feel as if they have invaded my privacy. Either feeling, is not such a wonderful feeling, that is for sure. @scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
25 Apr 11
I think that if someone flashed me that would feel dirty and violated, definitely more so than if someone saw me naked. I'd feel more in control if someone saw me naked--suppose I actually WANTED them too? But to be forced to view someone naked takes that control away from me and ceases to be sexy.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
24 Apr 11
I think that both of these would be uncomfrotable to experience. Getting flashed would be there and gone. someone peeping on you would still be a secret. i think that this would be something harder to take.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
25 Apr 11
Everybody has His /her own choice. It depends on person to person
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
i think flashing is rather worse especially if there is nothing delightful to see.. on the other hand, peeping would be not bad especially when i know i would not be a sight worth watching, lol!
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
no doubt, peeping stranger would have caused more worry. as far as i know flashers do not impose much discomfort provided they only want you to get an arousal. the memory stays longer so bad and its almost impossible to avoid seeing. might consider wearing shades next time.
