How do you solve your problems?

I do what other people do. After realizing the problem., I take time to look at it in different approaches. I try to analyze and list what kind of possible solutions can work and what possible scenarios can happen form the said solutions. I also try to look at teh problem in different perspective and decide whether the what kind of problem it is - big, small, personal, professional, something that can put off or not, something that I can share or not. I try to record the problem so I have a good grasp of what I am going to do nest. If the circumstances permit, I might share it with the family or a friend who can give me advice on the matter. Then I go solve the problem and pray that it will go away, not grow big and forget all about it.

Well, I am sure everybody has a different way of solving their problems. I will share mine. First, I analyze the situation. I try to see what happened, why it happened, and how it came to be. Secondly, I come up with multiple solutions to solve the problems. For example, if my problem was I got into an argument with a friend, I would come up with different ways to confront him or her. Next, I would weigh the pros and cons of my solutions and pick the one with the best possible outcome. This is often one of the harder steps for me. Lastly, I execute the plan and hope for the best. This is usually pretty hard and depending on the situation may be the hardest.

hey there rhden.. it seems that you are experiencing a lot of problems right now in your life.. but heres one piece of advice that i can give you with little experience that i have.. there is no right or wrong answers in the game of life.. you just have to live your life as you see fit.. since you are the captain of your boat, you are the one making your life's decisions.. and of course there is no one to tell you whether you are right or wrong since they can not put their feet on your shoes like you can.. its always on how you look at things.. and lastly my friend, you can always look at problems as obstacle courses and dont really let yourself get bothered.. if you think you failed you expectations, GET UP AND MOVE ON.. as one of my favorite nba players used to say, YOU FALL A FEW TIMES, YOU CAN ALWAYS GET UP.. so its not the end of the world for you.. hope this helps.. take care..