how do you feel when you and your ex bf meet again?

There's really nothing wrong to contact each other, if both of you are still single. I think, it's natural , that despite present relationship, we still have the urge to make a try on a former relationship, if both of you are not yet married or committed to somebody. But if you are married , then don't have any contact with him anymore. It may lead into something elicit.

This can be an awkward moment a first. it is hard to know when to make the first move towards friendships again. it doesn't mean that arelationship with them will start again, itjust shows that a piece of the heart has remained.

Oh why hesitant? It's fine if your not in a relationship, you still got that SPARK don't you? give him a chance, but don't jump into conclusions, he might want to have a get together with you again.. It's not hard to fall for your ex again right? there is no difference with a new guy and your ex. if both love each other, then GO! Have fun and enjoy! If I were in your shoes, I'll grab the chance. You'll never know, maybe he's your destiny. hehehe :) GOOD LUCK friend :)

That happened once, because when it's over I always change air, it's like impossible find them, just happened twice actually! Sorry, just remind about another occasion. One I felt triumph cause after I break he stopped talking to me, and that got me angry and sad, both. So 12 years later he saw me and my friend said it was like he was going to break his neck. I didn't look again, and just looked by accident, but he didn't stop. I felt he was humiliating him self and I wouldn't talk to him as he turned his back, okay I break up but anyway he promised he'd be my friend forever. The second time it was almost the same. I felt it was a battle of egos, with one, I actually went there cause I break and he took it really even though he said okay, you are right we don't belong together. But then in the real break up he passed out drinking, I felt so horrible that years later even though I would never do that I went there to say hi, he was arrogant, he liked I went there and I felt no humiliation at all. I feel like the one that is dumped gets really angry even years later. The one that actually got angry by the time of the break up was trying to talk, to get me to look at him years later. If you feel funny it's normal my dear, they are such an important part of our lives. They were potential husbands/wives right? I had a girlfriend that would run when she knew her 3 year boyfriend was in a place. Even though he was the one who break it up. She couldn't talk to guys, she always felt really bad like she was cheating, I never saw a reaction like that. Was she okay for being dumped??? Sure! Actually there was nothing better: she went for a vacation in a exotic land, actually a real island...she met another guy, got married in six months, live there, she is with him for such a long time! Faith! Destiny. I was so happy for her. We shouldn't feel guilty cause when it't not meant to be...it's not.

hi jood, If you are both single and the feelings are mutual well Love is sweeter the second time around as they say you can give a try maybe you were destined to have each other, In life we always have second chances maybe this time things will turn out to be good don't be afraid to follow your heart though it is risky at least you give a try. After the break up i did not know how many times we saw each other but since i don't love him anymore there were no space for a second chance i just act naturally smile at him and for sure he is drooling over me until he get tired of showing himself. Best of Luck! have a nice day!

you must weigh out things. Maybe your ex is trying to win you back again. DO you miss him and love him still? what would you like your life riht now without him or to have a life with him again. It is your call and you must decide for yourself where you would feel happier.

Your ex is trying to empress you again I guess. Why feel hesitant as long as your not committed with another guy then it's totally fine going out with him again. He is your destiny, maybe he still want to renew the brokened relationship you had. It seems you still love him I can sense it the twinkling of your eyes,ooh your in love again jood definitely you are. For me, just go with it if you still love him then follow your heart or else you will regret the chances has been given up to you all you have to do is take it. You've been praying for the right one and now his there. Goodluck.. Don't forget to share your first date again hopefully with a picture. lol

If you aren't in another relationship, I think you should meet him because it sounds like you still have feelings for him and that yall didn't break up on bad terms. Even if you do have different lives, that is not a bad thing and could bring a lot of good conversation. I think that is a good thing because two people should be independent and have their own lives as well as one together. I think those are the healthiest relationships because you are not dependent on one another. You have nothing to lose by going to meet him and see where it goes. At least you will have your answer and you won't have to wonder....and who knows...maybe it will be just perfect :)

I never felt that same with you coz I never had a bf since but I can't help but gush over your romantic scene..*gaaahh* Your words are true and really they are honest to a point I can picture them out. You should try going out with him but don't expect too much you can be friends for awhile and just see how it goes. :) GOODLUCK! I hope I get much updates soon..