Stay for the kid or leave for your dreams, life and love...

I understand why people do this and I respect it, but I wouldn't and I couldn't. I don't think it is good for a child to see an unhealthy relationship. If you aren't happy, how can you teach your child to be happy. I think it is more important for the child to see happy, loving relationships in a healthy environment than see their parents together in the opposite. I also think parents are better parents if they are happy. They are enjoying life more and teaching their children to enjoy life. I think all these lessons will have a better impact on a child than his/her parents together.

I'd rather leave the guy..I'll make a way to raise my own child full of love rather than bickering and arguments. To those who rather stay with their partners maybe because they know they wont have much capacity to handle raising a child.

It is not always a good thing to stay with someone just for the children. Children even at a young age pick up that their parents are not happy with each other and that makes for a very stressful household and the child may internalize it and think it's their fault that the parents aren't happy. How can you raise a successful. productive child if you are miserable yourself?

hello fee, I would never stay in a relationship that doesn't work or no love at all. I rather leave and make him free. There is no use staying or living together when there is no love anymore. We can talk about kids and responsibility...and then we can have separate lives and have freedom again. have a good day

Staying because you are feeling pressured or obligate will not bring your life any satisfaction. you may be able to abide with it for a while but it will come to fail you. Staying with someone should be a free choice and not one you are made to suffer through.

If I do really love my partner, I would stay for both my child and my partner. However, if I have problems with my partner, I would definitely try to work things out and try my best not to put the child into the conflict too. The child is the fruit of love. I am really going to take full responsibility for the child. I will really make sure that the child would not feel any regrets for being born. I will really sacrifice for the child, because it is my duty to do so. I want my child to be close to God too.

The wife of my brother, also pregnant in a very young age, she was pregnant with my younger brother. While they do not have a sense of love. sister-in-law I want to marry my younger brother, but only until the baby is born. And my sister-in-law, did not want to take care of her baby, because they still want to school. A very surprising decision, and no responsibility. Each person will have their own decisions, in the face of every problem.

I left mine and raised my own kid. There's no point in hanging on when there's no love anymore. Life would be even better. It wouldn't be right to bring up a child in an environment where there are lots of arguments and resentment in a relationship. I'd say to get on with our own lives and live freely than having to face hatred everyday.