good relationships- some tips

India
April 26, 2011 1:34am CST
every morning make a conscious commitment to eliminate blame, criticism, and invalidation from your side of the relationship. if it leaks out, acknowledge it, and apologize to your partner
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@pogi253 (1596)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
When you are in the middle of conflict, take the lead to handle it respectfully and peacefully. Listen to what is being said. Lots of times, conflict arises from a simple lack of understanding or miscommunication. Keep away from making assumptions about what you hear. Instead, ask for explanation. For example, “I heard you say X, is that what you meant?” choose on a fair course of action. Now that you have a lucid idea of what the problem is and where the person is coming from, it is time to discover some solutions. Throw out some ideas that you can vet together. Decide the soundest option that you can agree on. Plan to reappear your decision within a specified period of time to see how you are doing and what changes, if any, need to be made.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
hello, A good relationship always have a trust and respect, if one of you do a sin make sure that you know how to say sorry because it can heal all the wounds that has been done. It is natural to commit some mistakes in relationship but as long as you keep understanding each other, it will last forever. good luck