What does it mean when a guy

@tessa9 (1085)
Philippines
April 26, 2011 6:14am CST
Me and my friends were people watching in a coffee shop yesterday. A woman was sitting beside us. She was busy with her phone. A couple walked in and sat across her. The tables are pretty close. You can stretch your arm out and is able to touch the other person in the other table. The couple sat down and started to talk. The guy saw the woman beside us and started become really touchy touchy with her girlfriend. He will occasionally glance at the woman sitting beside us. The woman sometimes catch him looking at her but just ignores him. The woman is pretty but so is the guys girlfriend. What does it mean or does it even mean anything...
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18 responses
• Argentina
26 Apr 11
Probably means that he's a pervert and he was imagine something with her girlfriend and the woman! O_o Really he was doing that? I could think many things that I believe this means...
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@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
Haha I know right. I think it's totally normal to look around your surrounding but to constantly focus on someone while you are with your girlfriend is just off.
@chhetp1 (467)
• India
26 Apr 11
Hi tessa9!! It could mean anything and nothing. I think there is this human tendency of admiring any beautiful woman,that's definitely a man's way of life. However, getting too close and showcasing the intimacy only to get the attention from the lonely woman was definitely not the right way.
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@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
Hello there. I agree. Me and my friend maybe was just looking into it too much but I don't know. The guy was just iffy for some reason. Love the profile pic
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• United States
28 Apr 11
sounds like he was trying to flirt with the woman but used the girlfriend to do it with making them both feel special and it sounds like you had a nice lunch watching
@rajeev075 (1961)
• India
26 Apr 11
It was very intersting to hear that but as i got full view the same story. It is difficult to say what is there but there is something between them and if not might the guy get attracted to the women any thing more.
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@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
26 Apr 11
I think maybe he just likes to flirt. Some people are like that naturally. I don't fall into that catagory. I have my bubble. If the guy does this infront of his girlfriend, I'm sure it means nothing. Best Wishes!
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• Philippines
26 Apr 11
I think it means that the guy likes the woman beside you. He is showing that he can also do the same to her what he does to his girlfriend.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
That will be creepy though. But I guess it is possible.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Apr 11
I don't really know if it means anything at all. Guys are very visual and often will glance or stare at other people, sometimes even to the point of being creepy and having the person or other strangers notice lol. For the most part, women hide that better or perhaps sometimes we're oblivious. I appreciate beauty as much as the next person but I don't generally look at strangers much unless I'm people watching. I've had friends honking at me or calling me because I was oblivious and I didn't see or hear them and they were right near me.
• United States
27 Apr 11
It means he is a man with excruciatingly bad manners, who has no respect for anyone else around him. He is a person I would happily put on ignore.
• United States
26 Apr 11
I can only assume he was flirting if he could not stop looking at the pretty girl. I have noticed myself staring in a place like that unintentionally but as soon as I notice that I am doing it too much I am one to force myself to stop. There are men/women who will do this out of flirty ways and it is ot right if they are with their partner. I would be offended if my boyfriend did so constantly while I was there. I could understand once or twice but not constantly.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
27 Apr 11
I think it's disgusting, there are signs to recognize a guy like that. If the guys just sits and start to flirt while the girl is even with him he is more than a cheater, he'll do for sure I think. And this girlfriend seems to have a lot of low self esteem cause there's no way she never saw that happening.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
For me, it means that the guy is telling her girlfriend that the girl is pretty, but she is prettier and she loves her.
@myn3wlif3 (139)
27 Apr 11
I think there's no meaning for that. Sometimes we think advance to that situation. Its normal for us to think there's some meaning with the gestures of others.
• Indonesia
27 Apr 11
I think he tried to get another chance, hahaha, it's sign of something
@tink91879 (742)
• United States
27 Apr 11
It was probably nothing. He cld be a touchy guy anyway. He was probably attracted in looking at her, but I doubt he meant anything with looking and touching. I wld think if he were interested he wldnt have been so touchy with his GF. He would have tried harder with the other girl.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
26 Apr 11
I think thats just a weird thing to do. But people stare at people all the time. Maybe it was an ex of his or someone that he is carrying on a relationship of some sorts and it was a game for him. You really can go so many ways with that. Just as the others have said it can mean anything or nothing.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Well the way it seems is maybe the guy new the other girl at the other table, maybe it was his ex and he was trying to make her feel jealous? It could be that they had just broken up or that she had broken up with him and he wanted to show her that he ahd already moved on. I guess it could also mean that he wanted to have relations with her as well, or it could mean nothing at all.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Hi. tessa9. I think that this guy is just trying to get this girl's attention. He could be trying to make her jealous too. But if he does not know this girl, then why would he do something like this anyway? It seemed like he was trying to show his girlfriend some attention and this came from him admiring the other girl's beauty. I also believe that he was trying to assure himself that he really do love his girlfriend. He may be a guy that gets easily attracted to beautiful women. And this is his way of trying to assure himself that he is not attracted to her by being touchy touchy with his girlfriend. Maybe he wants to appreciate his girlfriend instead of being attracted to a female that he does not even know. This is very strange behavior though that he is acting out on.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
hhhmmm.... i dont think it means anything. perhaps the guy is thinking about something but it's hard to predict what that is...