Moving On

Yes I've been and still I'm loving. My experience is different from you because I was the one who have fallen out of love. I broke up with that person and all she did was cry. I felt really sad about it because somehow we had a lot of happy memories together. I've seen her cry even at our classroom, she dealt with it through drinking, going out a lot with friends who were influencing her to drink a lot. Falling out of love is not falling out of love for me. I guess all we did was do the same thing together all the time. I got tired because there's a lot going on that time and we are not growing at the same time. I did not knew that that will happen of course and I never did wished for that to happen. But if I stay then I would be unfair to her and to myself. I'll only hurt her in time,and hurt her more. It is not easy also for my part. All our friends blamed for what happen and I was devastated. A friend advised me not to be affected by what others say, what matter is that I am being true to myself. All I did is pray that someday she'll forgive me and she did.

hi there, this is my first relationship, we are each others' first boyfriend and girlfriend but lately we have been arguing about a lot of things. like we complain a lot about each other i can say that i am so heart broken and hurt right now. fighting has become like our weekly activity :( we have talked about it a lot to just let go and move on, but we just can't do it. we can't just let go of each other and throw away 7 years of being together i don't know what to do right now, 6:07 am (Philippines) and i am still awake just thinking about him. i mention him a lot here on mylot about how in love we are with each other but lately, i don't know anymore. i don't know what to do with my life. i just hopw we get through this very soon because it hurts me so much. and i don't even know how i would be if we finally break up, i don't know if i can move on from it without him in my life. it will absolutely destroy me

Sorry to hear of your experience. I had someone I cared for very dearly and the fact that he personally faced me to say that he preferred we remain friends helped to a sense because he was courageous enough to speak to me directly and not cheat and or pehaps taken the cowards way out by sending a message. Time and another interest eventually healed my wounds. It was not easy but somehow as I got older I could deal with it better. You are right about no regrets. We cannot regret having loved someone especially if we handle the later situation well. Best of luck to you.

hello, Yes, I've been fallen in love for how many times and now I really learned much. So, lets go back to the topic. So, how do I cope up with a break-up? By the help of my friends and family. By friends because I just absorb their positive aura and they always make me laugh that is why I can moved on easily. I mean they really help me. by the help of my family , we are open to each other they know when I have a broken heart or not they usually talk to me seriously and give me some advices. which makes me feel better. that's it good luck

If the love is gone then its gone. I experienced it after 7 years. My ex left me when he told me that he did not loved me anymore. My love was over, just like that. You know why.....how can you love someone who does not love you. That helped me to get over it. I only love the ones who love me.

Break-up has never been easy for a person who has been faithful and took the relationship seriously. But with your family on your back and friends on your side, then, moving on won't be hard. Having fun with them and reinventing yourself helps a lot. :)