stalker!!

Hi. saphrina. No. Not like this, have I ever been stalked! I could not imagine a woman stalking me, that is so creepy! I am glad that you have closed your account. I mean what does this woman think? You never told her that you were interested into her in this kind of way. It is so good that you are no longer a member of this site because of this woman. It is also unfair that you have lost a huge bunch of friends because of this woman's attraction for you too. I hoped that you reported her to the moderator or the admin about her stalking you before you closed out your account. Hopefully, her account will end up being deleted.

I've been stalked by someone from the same gender once when I was young. At first it was like a hide-and-seek game, but I tried politely to turn her down. I got threats though, and took some time before I can go out alone, but at least she didn't bug me anymore.

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dear saphy, I never had any experience being stalked or courted by same gender. But i did closed an account from a social site due to stalking by a guy. Sad,you need to close that account for that crazy woman. Hope you can open a new one again and better keep it in private settings with only your close friends in the lists dear

I always thought that stalkers were always men and that women could be only fans. I hope you have not leave a site because of a fan. Maybe I will stalk you at myLot to compensate your fears. I can send you love PMs if you want -- I secretly hope that you will say "don't" -- !

I have never faced this kind of situation, guess she is a lesbian, who knew your gender and age, if those are visible.. Thank you so much for sharing Happy posting, cheers. Namastey. Kalyani

Sweetie, why did you not just report her I mean it is sad that you had to close the account because of this one Person, surely you could have had her banned This has not happened to me no and I hope it never will

hi saphrina I was twenty and my stalker a former patient of mine was 2o. He thought because I had treateed him kindly as an adult having his tonsils out and me being assigned to his room that I was open to be courted. I tried to disabuse him of that idea and failed. I refused o go out with him as he was just overwhelming me flowers gifts, phone calls at work which did not make my supervisors at all happy. finally out of desperation and wanting to put a stop to the phone calls and the gifts I agreed to have lunch wih him on my day off. bad bad idea. He came loaded o the teeth with gifts. He pulled out an enormous wedding and engagement ring with a huge diamonnd. then he proposed.When I told him I did not love him and could not accept that engagement and wedding ring set he went ballistic.he threw everyhingf on the floor then said if I cannot have you nobody else can eiter.He put his hands around my neck and tried to choke me. it took two burly waiters to pull him off me. The police werecalled and he was arrested for assualt but his dad an extremely wealhy man pulled strings and got him sent to New Jersy olive with an Aunt. Later I heard that he was in prison for almost killing a girl as he hurt her so badly when she refused his admances. this was a horribly frightening time for me and I was so young. Glad he was not a sher. that would have been even worse.

Does the site have a "block" button? Can't say as I've been stalked, but I have been approached. If they didn't accept "not interested", boom, delete, block, gone....

no i have never been stalked but i would just be bunt and tell her you our into men not women and she will get the hint

In indian society, its a big wrong thing. We will never allow that person. If that person will come into news, then they are the most worst person in our society.

Oh, why do you have to close the account? Couldn't you just block her? I did received a couple of them in another site and I blocked them. How can they say they love me, when even I did not post any of my pictures? I always incognito, except for my gender and country where I live. So, I guess they just wanted to do some illegal business with me, thus I blocked them. End of story.

Not quite the same, but elsewhere I have been stalked. By someone who disagreed with some of my views and kept turning up, so decided not to waste my time walking into continuous arguments!

Wow, you had quite an experience there. No, thank God, I have no stalker, be it men or women. I have friends!

Yeah, I was stalked by another person before but its not the same as yours because he is a guy. Well he came to the house of my bestfriend and introduce himself as my boyfriend. He asked my best friend to accompany him to come in my house. The good thing is, my best friend didn't trust him and she know that he is lying because If I had a boyfriend she will know it first. Well, I also got a stalker in a social site and he keeps on leaving love messages in my account. I just ignore him. In your case, you said that your stalker is a woman. Maybe she is just a fan of yours? How could be a women became a stalker?I know that the guy is the one who stalks..isn't it?

I had the same problem about a year ago! at my age LOL... I had to leave this social site because she made me very uncomfortably...and she was young for goodness sake! what was she looking for?... may be a free ticket to come to my country?

I never had a stalker like that. I felt I had one here on Mylot at one time. One memeber would response to all my discussions and would never was nice about how I wrote my discussions! She just picked and picked! Nothing she said was nice! I told her to leave me alone and even reported her. It got so bad I felt like I could not do anything right,I was worthless and I almost left Mylot because of her! There was times I cried because of the way she treated me! Finally after like 6 months she stopped harressing me! I have not heard from her since! I think she isn't active anymore or has left. Whatever the reason I am happy! That is my stalker story!

Stalked Saphy, really... If I am I am not aware and hopefully not because I am not interesting at all. I try to keep to myself and as you can see I am not your stalker because I made it 11 hours late to your discussion. Give me a hint as to what she looks like so I can steer the opposite way. I don't believe I have been openly stalked by anyone either gender but you never know as stalkers have a good way of disguising themselves.

hello Saphrina, Well my bestfriend belongs to a third gender and that is so fine with me i really love her a lot there was a time when she told me that if she can love me not just a friend i freaked out really well i am not against them but the idea of having a relationship with her more than friends is a NO NO NO (like you i prefer MEN real MEN ) then she tapped me, laughed telling okies but you can still change your mind and she wink at me it's a joke or not still i can't imagine we are still best of friends now though she is far from me. Stalker is really creepy that will be fine as long as they will not hurt you in any possible way is that possible? have a nice day

Oh my! I guess that is one disadvantage of social networking sites. You become prone to stalking. But you shouldn't really worry though, she can't stalk you anymore, not now anyway. :) Just laugh it off and enjoy the rest of your day. A