People in your life annoying you?

My boyfriend is like this because he needs to get a job but everytime I suggest that he applies at one place he says "yeah I'll do it later," and never does it. But then I think of all the times I am supposed to do my homework but don't do it till the last minute. So when we get annoyed that someone's not doing their work or something, let's think about the reason. Maybe they don't think it's necessary to do it? In this case, maybe you can talk it out and see if you can change the way they think about it. Maybe they really don't want to do it, or they're afraid of doing it. If they have a fear of success or fear of failure, this can keep them from doing the things they need to do. Or, if they have different goals in life, maybe they are working on those.

Hi. cmecu6. I have been around many people like this. My mother-in-law is this way, big time! She will do something that she should not do, and then she will turn it around and act like she does not know what she has done. She will be saying that she know that she shouldn't have done such and such, but something told her to do it anyway. Please, whatever!

I get annoyed at people who can't think for themselves especially when they have to refer every simplest details to me. Even if it is their own project or idea they always come to me and ask the stupidest questions. I mean, come on, it's your own idea, should you not know what to do with it? It's your own project, should you not be the one doing the thinking?

One of my Chief Program whom we call Chief Drummer is very very annoying personality in my department. We all colleagues are perturbation and allergic from him and try to avoid him but he is such a stubborn person. He try to find any little incident to shout on us and we all try to never give him a little one. Although its like an daily competition is going on but we all are looking for peace of mind. We gave written complaint against him to big boss but still he is managing how we don't know. Now we all are ready to take an final step against him let see when but we will.....:D

I know someone who overreacts most of the time. You know, I just hate seeing and hearing that person complain about this and that. That he/she is tired of this and that. Come on! That person just annoys me soooo much!

I know a lot of people like this. They are really annoying because if you tell someone that you're going to do something don't put it off constantly.

Lol! I have this friend who tells so much that he doesn't even do. Like he was saying "I'm gonna put up a business, a Music studio". then years after, there is none. He keep babbling about something that I KNOW he can't even do. "I will buy my own guitar", "I'm planning to put up a gig/concert", "I am gonna buy my own car", "I have something for you, just wait and I know you'll like it". SOOOO MUUCHHHH lies. Even if you wait 5years you will not see it, I know that, and now he is still like that not knowing that WE (me and friends) know him, and We know that none of this will ever come true, and that makes us annoyed, We just don't have the guts to tell him what we really know for We know that if ever we tell him, he might get offended. I'm just thinking, why lie? for what? does it makes him famous? No, it will not, instead it makes him look more and more LIAR. Geez.. On the other hand, I have a someone I know who's like that too.. "I KNOW" hahaha!! I think it's just because they wanted to tell you or like.. make you feel that THEY KNOW what they're doing, like saying to you "I'm not dumb" hahaha! Just let it slip, ignore it. :)

Everyone does this to me. lol, kidding usually the teenagers because they do not like to be told what to do, so they are quick to respond to me, with the I know. It is quite irritating because if you ask them again they did not hear a single word. In my opinion it is a way for them to get us to stop speaking. So what I do is that I will require full eye contact as we speak and I won't stop until I get a full response besides I know. Doesn't always work but sometimes it does.

People like that are really annoying. They know that it's not supposed to be done because it's against the rule but they still do it , inspite of reminders. When that happens, i give up. I let it be, and just think, time will come when they will stop because something bad happened. When that time comes, i would just say, "Didn't i keep on telling you about it?"

I think I am the person you are talking about :). This is because my mother and sister like to give me endless lists of chores. After they give me their list, they like to call 100 times a day to see if I have done it or not, and I am a procrastinator, so usually have not. I sit there on the phone and say I know, ok bye, I'll do it in a minute and then hang up. I don't mind doing the tasks they want me to, but if they are going to give me the tasks to do, I am going to do it on my own and at my own convenience, not theirs. If they don't like it and want it done sooner, they can do it themselves. I always get around to doing it and before the deadlines and always do the tasks well, just never when they want it done. I think we play opposite roles, haha!!

My husband and kids do this a lot. I think I wld be better off talking to a wall. The wall dosent speak but gives me the same outcome. I think sometimes we just need a break, but really the ppl wldnt get annoying if they wld just do the task asked of them. Of course when you repeat in asking your now nagging. So its really a no win situation.

myself. sometimes I realized that i'm one of the annoying person in this world. This is a result of an over self- confident. You believe that you know everything, you think that you can't have mistakes in all things you work. But then I'm trying my best to change it.

what else are they supposed to say? maybe they don't like being nagged about something over and over again. Is it possible you are being overbearing and micromanaging people's lives? I'm no saying you are, but it's a possibility. the only one i have to tell to do something more than once is my four year old, and i could never get annoyed with a little guy.