looking for truth...you may not like what you find

If the truthis something you fear, then perhaps ypu suffer from low self-esteem, for if you have confidence in yourself, and your abilities, then surely the truth with which you are faced, however painful or unpleasant, can only serve to make you stronger? As for being careful what you wish for, I believe that this, too, is a matter of degrees. If you have too much ambition, or move too quickly for your own temperament toward your gol, then self-doubt is inevitable, as are faltering steps. Be realistic about what you want and what is achievable. Small steps still get you where you want to go, but on a much more secure footing.

Truer words were never spoken. Well, probably there were truer words spoken somewhere....