I'm a Good Listener?

Hello myn, This is nice that you know you are a good listener. When people have problems the tend to tell their stories and only after listening them carefully you would be able to guide them through. Now your problem is why people are not listening to you. Do you talk to the point or in round about way? Usually people avoid talkative people. Just see when you talk you talk a lot. if so try to be precise. People would surety listen to you. Both of them are good. Being a good listener and a talker makes the same sense, only different in kind.

Not everyone can be a good listener. they may be able to hear whas someone is saying butactually listening to what they have to say is not always the case. I have always thought of myself as being a good listener to others. i would hope for the same respect from anyone else.

im a good listgener too, there always friends that liten to you. Just find someone that you can trust or in case that you go to church ask the pastor to listen to you. Remember that you must feel comfortable when telling anyone your problems.

It's good that you are a good listener. I bet your friends must be soglad to have you around. I on the other hand am not a good listener but i do have friends who'll drop anything to listen to my naggings. I am so lucky to have them with me :)

I would say a listener, that way I can get to know people better, not just on the outside, but on the inside. If I become a teller, people might start to think that I'm annoying and just get pissed off. Getting to know more about others, that's what interacting is about.

hi myn3wlif3 I can relate with your situation. Because most of my friends open up their problems with me too. Even though i am not asking they're the one who approached me first. All I need to do is listen, by simply doing it, I mean lending your ears means a lot to them. You can give relief to what they feel, you can empty burdens from within. Somebody told me that God gave us two ears and one mouth. It means that we must listen twice than we talk.