Social cripple
By llsling
@llsling (331)
China
April 27, 2011 1:34am CST
Now I can consider myself as a complete socially disabled person ,to some extent ,some people are really born with this kind of quality . Very often did i try to change the way I act around people but it hardly worked out . Sometimes it's really tough just being somebody else you are not used to . I mean fake smile ,sucking up to people ,kissing assss ,they are not that sorts of things I can actually do in real life . Even when getting laid with girls , i can't do and speak something fake to please 'em .
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4 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Ok, then Don't! Be yourself. Where is it written you Have to suck up? I was painfully shy as a child and then a teen, I slowly got the courage to Just be myself. Now I'm still shy but I am open but I am myself. I do not suck up.It may take some time but don't give up. Just be yourself.
@llsling (331)
• China
27 Apr 11
China is not a usual place for people from other areas easily understanding how they behave . I'm getting tired of all of this $hit . They just shun those away who act differently and that is exactly why Chinese can't do nothing great but making stupid money . They are way too stubborn for me ,can't take nothing new . Shame !
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 Apr 11
If you feel out of place in China then china Isn't where you Should be! Look for a trade/job you can do That you like And is based outside China. Follow your bliss!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Apr 11
First rule, KEEP KINDNESS in your mind, second, speak only the truth, third, treat others as you would like to be treated. And above all else listen to others, you can get through a whole party with an ability to listen and a smile.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
28 Apr 11
Hi there,
Do not pretend to be who you are not. Keep in mind that if you are not accepted for who you are then they are not worthy of you.
You/we cannot please everyone no matter how hard we try so keep in mind that everyone will find the right compatible match at some point in our lives if we do not try so hard.
No point in pretending then later to find that you cannot keep up with who you are not. The real you will eventually be appreciated and until then no point in pleasing the non-worthy.
