Have You Ever Loved Someone, Ready To Do Anything - Just to Be with Her/Him?

Thailand
April 27, 2011 3:01am CST
Have you ever felt that you can't think straight, breath and eat normally - always thinking of your lover? Every minute you are apart making you feel sad, depressed and vain? If that's the case, you might actually really be in love, or even have fallen for that person completely and utterly. Has your love been returned or was it just you...... behaving strangely? Do you think that this is a normal way to express love or rather extra ordinary? Shouldn't we be all be rational, sensible and react normally or is it better to be burned by the fires of Love?
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Feeling that kind of love for someone can be an all consuming feeling. It gives the person you love all of the power and control in the relationship. we should be willing to go the exra mile for the one we love but not at an extreme cost that would disrespect who we are and our expectations.
• Hong Kong
28 Apr 11
I agree with u. what u said was soo true! wow! don't believe in love anymore after what i've gone through.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Apr 11
hello albert, You can check one of my latest discussion or i think you have read it. I've done beyond imagination something against all the odds following my heart desires. And if given another chance,still i will do/make same mistake just to be with someone i love,i never regretted doing those things. But of course as i grow older,i know how to weigh other things-but i can still say that,i am willing to sacrifice in the name of love. Few times i ended friendship before it starts into more romantic relation because i am afraid of falling in love again. Love is sweet,but too bitter that i could almost taste it.
• Thailand
27 Apr 11
For me, I'm a fool and do the same foolish mistakes over and over and over again. Perhaps, I don't want to learn from it somehow, I believe that real love is out there somewhere. Perhaps a lifetime isn't enough to find it - but I keep om trying anyway....
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@shibham (16977)
• India
27 Apr 11
Well albert.. I am not involved in any relationship now but once i used like this one... read. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2503823.aspx Have a nice day.
• Thailand
27 Apr 11
Sorry for you reading about your mishap with Lady7, this must have been a bitter diappointment to you, Hope you get over it soon and try again?
• China
28 Apr 11
hi,albert,it sounds like you have fallen for someone ,might i ask does he/she have the same feeling with you,if yes,congratulatons!it's so happy to love and to be loved,and this feelings are quite nomal and i envy you have...while on the contrary if not ,then maybe the love fire would went out eventually...i have this feeling before and my imagination makes me restless and i can't erase his figure for a minutes,but times prove that i am just unilateral.love is on both side... as i grow older ,i found that this kind of feeling never happened on me,what a pity,hum?am i too sensible , rationnal and realistic...i still miss that feeling
• China
27 Apr 11
time can remove this feeling,when i am falling in love with sb,firstly,i want to together with him everyday and everytime,but time and time ago,i feel myself is so...and at last ,i will forget this feeling ,and we can become the best friend,not lover,maybe i am the strange person,but that is true.
• Thailand
27 Apr 11
Well, as long as you can be best friends. It's still a relationship but you aren't lovers anymore. Hope and wish you will find the right one soon. The one you don't have to regret a single thing.
• Hong Kong
28 Apr 11
Yes,I have felt such passion for a person. Never able to fall asleep without thinking about him.Always daydreaming and i had a great drop in my studies but he never loved me back so its not worth it. don't ruin your life for someone because u might go crazy but they don't even care a bit.We all should be rationl,sensible and react normally i agree.Its stupid to cause yorself pain for others who don't care so live your life in a better way.Don't fall in love!And if u have fallen in love SNAP OUT OF IT! THANK YOU
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
27 Apr 11
That's how my daughter was before she married her husband. I can remember they were on the phone all the time, she started learn how to cook. I mean this boy changed her in ways I have never seen her want to change. He actually got her in a dress. I was shocked. I have had a tom boy daughter since she entered middle school nd now at the age of 20 she is back into dresses and girly things. He's trying to earn enough money now to put her through college. I couldn't be happier for them but I'll be even happier when they move down here with mummy and daddy lol.
@gmkumar08 (396)
• India
27 Apr 11
Yes,i did,she was once my best friend,but,now she's my baby,my everything,my life,I still remember the day on which i was gonna propose her,i was afraid that how will her response be towards this,but,finally,i just tried to show her how i feel,i just tried to express my love,that's it,that was the best day of my life,she said 'YES',and now,i am ready to give up anything for her,i will give up anything just to be with her,just to make her happy. 'WITH OUT HER,THERE'S NO ME.'
@ajk111 (2495)
27 Apr 11
it is better to be hurt many times because that means you have loved many times. and that is a beautiful rollercoaster emotion that enriches your lifes experiences.