Getting Pregnant now or later?

if you can afford a full time baby sitter and can provide the needs of both babies then i think it'll be fine. but of course it's better if your kids will have at least 2 years gap.. my brother and i have 4 years gap, that was because my mom would want to be very hands on to me.. :)

For me, if you still have a 7 month old daughter, don't rush for another baby even if you enough money because taking care of your daughter is not that easy. There are many things and situations that you will experience soon. And more money to spend for her needs. So much better if you will spend more time with her and enjoy life with her especially when she reach the age where you can talk and play with her. Since you're still young, nothing to worry. I hope this will help you decide.

It is lovely that you have a 7 month old little girl. As you are currently 27 years old you have plenty of time to have 3 more children. It is a shame though that it took you ages to get pregnant with your daughter. I think that you could try to conceive now and it might again take a while before you get pregnant with your second baby. From what I know to get pregnant a lady needs to be relaxed. If she is stressed because she is worried she hasn't yet conceived this will prevent her getting pregnant. One of my friends has a one year gap between her daughter and son. She says that it is wonderful to have two kids close in age. Good luck with you having three more pregnancies.

Is it so surprising that you want 4 kids, can I ask why? because I am older than you and I don't have one. its way to early for me in my life to think about running behind any kids. It would be unfair to have kids in my society I have nothing at this moment to offer it. Nice school, food, clothes, nice roof over its head. If I can not offer it that and when it get sick I can't afford a ct scan or medications. It don't make any sense me having any children.

I think you should start trying now because even if you did get pregnant right away, your children would be 16 months apart so they would be in different grades. I grew up in close in age with sisters and we are all very close and have a great relationship because we are so close in age. If you space your children out too much, they don't grow up together and therefore aren't as close. I think it is also easier for parents to have them close so you can raise your children together and then be empty nesters and enjoy that part of your life as well. It is harder to raise children as you get older. I say this because one of my friends mothers had three children close together and they are all very close, and then had a fourth 4 years later. She was happy about the fourth but she said it was very hard for her to raise her fourth because she was older and didn't have as much energy. She also said the 3 always played together which was easier and the fourth child didn't have anyone to play with, and her fourth child she had to start over with. She said if she had to do it over, she would have had the fourth right after the 3rd because it would have been better for her, her husband, and all of her children. I hope you have a wonderful family :)

if you're ready for another child then now is the time. Must ancestors whether you can handle.This is a very important decision.if you feel better so now is the time to cherish but remember that you will need more time and forces many concerns.

i got six sons and another one on the way, and mind you, it's really a disadvantage of not having a 'family planning' scheme for couples especially with the harsh times ahead. gaps should be within a 4-year span as you could have more time devoted to your child at a time, thereby giving the right attention and care a child should have.

Hi,kheydia! I don't think it is a great idea.It's tough to deal with two babies with such a small age gap.You may feel quite exhausted.Unless you can find a good babysitter.I think being pregnant between 25 and 30 are good for babies.So you still have two more years coming.Maybe while the first baby is a little older.Is that your baby in your avatar?She's so adorable~Anyway,enjoy being a mom.I hope one day I will have my own healthy baby as well.I love those little babies. Have a good day!