Girl run away with a boy without known anything

I think, such things occur only in those families in which parents are not frankly behaving with their clildren. Parents should be friendly with children so that their children would not wander outside for seeking love and care.... This means, that main role is of parents to handle children, as they are more mature and experienced than their children...

How blinded that girl could be. Without even knowing the background of the boy, just because he is handsome, would run away with him. Perhaps the boy duped her into believing at first meeting, that he is of a good family, so that's why the girl believed him and run away with him. In this case, i think the parents should take back the girl, if she is returning to them. Letting her on her own, will surely ruin her life. Forgive the girl and give her a second chance. That's a way, the parents should be.

Wow!! I would think most of the time a girl would know what their potential husband is doing for work unless it is an arranged marriage. I often think many times that especially these days, it is not what a person does for work it is is a person able and willing to work, or is he going to be expecting the woman to bring in all the money as well? I hope since her family would not take her in, that she went back and apologized to her husband and learned to appreciate and accept him for who he is.

Surekha ji, I read this type of news every day. It is foolishness. The person who do this type of job they are spoling there life and hurt their parents. these are not a good work. Parents are also guilty in this type of case. Parents must be care their children must be teach them properly.

Surekhabeti I am not surprised at all, such things are becoming so common in my city, my state and if i am right in all parts of india as seen in tv and newspapers i put the blame on internet, chats in cafes, cell phones such things are painful, the end is always bad.. Thanks for sharing Cheers. God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .

Is his job the only reason she ran away? If it is, she should return to him. If she does not love him for other reasons, she should try to live alone or ask her parents' forgiveness.

So is love this days! you make mistakes only to realize only if you haven't done it, you wont be heartbroken today regretting the whole thing. The worst part is rushing things, relationship is huge and if you rush things without thinking it might get outta hand ruin your life forever sadly.

It happens a lot, one of my sister also ran away with her boyfriend and that fellow was assistant manager in some Paharganj Hotel but it seems they are happy now, she has moved away from her in laws place who lived in a colony with common toilets but she did had to endure that period finally she is working and supporting her family and her husband dotes on her and agrees to every thing she says. somehow it worked out for them. She didn't mind his cast and his uneducated status. So I think it is a case by case issue but in your case I think Girl's parents should help her out despite her foolish mistake.

hello dear, The girl must return to her husband. She has to be there,she choose that boy without her parents consent. Ok,if she can't live with her husband because she cannot accept that the boy is just a sweeper ..then she better live alone since i am sure her family cannot forgive her. She must stand on her own and be a successful career woman someday. Maybe then her family will forgive her. have a great day

This girl should have taken the advice of her parents. I think some children are not taught the right thing to do. But when in a bad situation it is always better to try and do your best at what ever you can do. She needs an education these days to get a good job. At least the boy had a job and was doing something other then sitting on his hands doing nothing. The grass is never greenier on the other side of the fence. It may look good but nothing is as good as your own back yard. Don't look for fairy tale dreams realize you get what you put into your life. If you put nothing into your life you get nothing out of your life. Happiness is within your own heart not somewhere else. Pray about it and ask God what God thinks she should do. And go with what is right by God and all will work itself out.

Hi surekharathi Foolish love or the thought that they are in love makes them to such without thinking about the future. Sadly she did not know about him or he know about her prior to running away together. This is sad that anyone do as such because firstly why would two people who do not know much about each think they can live together for life without knowing anything about one another. I understand that even in fixed marriages they are told a great deal about each other but not to know anything about the person and think life will be grand is wrong. Being together takes a great deal of effort to compromise and continually want to stay together so oddly it does happen a lot with many couples who simply do not know enough about one another before they make such a decision. It was wrong of her to leave him because if in fact in love what difference does it make what he does for a living. Further he did not know she was this way either to begin with because apparently he did not convey who he was until after they were together. Very sad situation for both especially her who know has no one for emotional support.

Hi surekharathi. 18 years is not an age to take such decisions and when she has realised her mistake, the parents should atleast be relieved that the girl has changed and take her back. But sadly, this is the case of many people who take bad decisions very early in their life. And if she does not want to live with her husband, then she has no choice. She has to live alone and make a life for herself. Sad state to be in but she has no choice.

What else do you expect the boy to do.Do you want him to leave the girl and get away.He just tried to be sincere and so he married her.He did a right job.He might be a sweeper.But,still he acted right.It was girl's mistake of taking such decision without knowing about him.But,if she really loved him,then even after marriage after knowing his job,she wouldn't have complaint.JUST BE SINCERE.

The girl is mad to run away with a boy she met recently and doesn't know anything about but nobody can blame her.She was in love and she was crazy probably so she did what SHE thought was best for her but it really wasn't.The boy may not have a job or might not be qualified to have a job.She really ruined her whole life by doing such a thing.Now they could fall broke and have no money to buy food for survival then what are they gonna do.I'd say they should return back to their homes if they wish to be happy and who knows if the boy is only using her for raping her and throws her somewhere afterwardas.Finally both of their lives are ruined.I've heard this happens a lot in India.I am an indian but im glad not be living in India.

Hi. surekharathi. I think that the girl should not have ran away from home. It looks as if her husband was not financially able to take care of her anyway. I think that she would have just been better off at staying at home with her parents. This was not a very smart move on her part. I understand that she wants to be an adult and be on her own with her husband. She and him should both be mature enough to handle being on their own. Running away and rushing has its serious consequences.