Women just can't win in love
By queenlove
@queenlove (495)
United States
April 27, 2011 1:25pm CST
If a woman looks to a man for help, she is a gold digger.
If she helps a man, she is a pushover.
If she gets involves too quickly,she is a h**. If she moves too slow, she is a B**** and playing games.
If she forgives him for doing wrong, he sees her as easy and takes advantage of her. If she doesn't forgive, then she is living in the past and wont let things go.
If she stays by his side, he walks away, if she walks away, he runs to her side.
If she treats him as a king, he treats her as a peasant. If she treats him as a peasant, he treats her as a queen.
If she makes him her priority, he makes her an option. If she gives him the option, he forgets his priorities.
When she loves him, he is not ready to love her. When her love fades, he decides he's in love and she is expected to accept him even though he rejected her initially.
When she is a good woman, he will still treat bad women better than her.
It seems like women just can never win.
4 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
27 Apr 11
That sounds like something only women with very low self steem would think.
@queenlove (495)
• United States
4 May 11
or from a woman who has been broken. A lot of times, women start off with healthy self-esteem and then someone breaks them down to the point where they begin to feel as if she can never be enough. The fact is, everyone is already enough. You just have to know when to draw the line with others.
@buttheadface932 (708)
• United States
4 Jan 16
@queenlove That is very sad, Queen. You should have better fortitude...bad or childish men are not attractive to some women!!
@smacksman (6053)
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27 Apr 11
That is talk about a relationship that is doomed. If that is your experience with men then you haven't met a genuine guy yet.
In that sort of relationship both the woman and the man can never win. Part as friends and move on.
A good working reltionship is not about scoring points off each other.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
I think its because of the immaturity if men that they have these things in their lives. I women also cant do anything about it cause its in the nature of men to be childish. I just dont know when they will grow up. I also dont understand men, and they are all the same, they think irrationally.
@queenlove (495)
• United States
4 Feb 16
I wrote this a very long time ago. However, I do feel as if the dynamics of relationships ahave changed. It is almost as if the roles have switched! I am an old fashioned kind of woman,myself. I believe in dating and getting to know someone before taking things to a deeper level. I believe in taking care of each other and putting forth a sense of loyalty to a relationship.
@buttheadface932 (708)
• United States
4 Jan 16
This is a very misandrist statement which is untrue, and breaks my heart that you think it is true.
@lexilex (7)
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28 Apr 11
That way of thinking is for those men who does not love at all. If you really love a woman, you would accept her for what she is and not make reasons to all her actions. Woman should be taken cared of and not just ignored by some undeserving man who thinks only of his own benefits.
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