Misunderstanding and Compromise

India
April 28, 2011 1:14am CST
Hie Friends i have an issue here... Well from the past 3 months iam not been able to meet my girlfriend or talk properly on phone... This is probably killing me a lot. The Last two months her exams were going on so i understand the situation but now her bro who has came home from abroad who is very possessive and strict about my girlfriend she says i wont be able to talk or meet.. IT will be possible few times when my bro is not at house or is not with me... Now my question is what should i do in such situations. I sacrificed so much for her and iam missing her too at times i cannot sleep at night its just so hard to stay without her, she also says don't send love messages cause her bro might notice as he sometimes checks her mobile but i said " at least you can send me some" Is this sentence too demanding from me from her. I these days practice myself to be less affectionate and be busy in some activities but its just so hard please guys help me on this issue....
3 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
Don't be a worrisome. Your girlfriends has already stated her reasons, so just abide by it, if you don't want to lose her forever. For now that you are both banned from sending messages while her brother from abroad is still there, you can call up your friends and interact with them instead. The problem of some boys and girls in a relationship, is they tend to have themselves exclusive for each other, forgetting to interact with their friends. When something such as that happens, they are left with nobody to mingle with. There are lots of things to do, do Mylotting, play computer games and go out with friends. Don't torture yourself.
• India
28 Apr 11
hey thanks i was just trying to go for it. You gaved me a good response thanks very much
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Thanks for the BR too.
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Your girlfriend is so lucky to have you, because you really love her.It is just sad that she is not aware of how fortunate you are. Cause for me this is the dirty truth...if you love someone , nothing can keep you from being with this person. Too much alibis is getting too annoying anymore and I would suggest that you back out a little and concentrate on other things worth your while. (^_^)
• India
29 Apr 11
Thanks for suggesting I think iam too much affectionate and needs to concentrate and interact with friends and others thank you.
• China
29 Apr 11
have a good communication with her and understand the reasons!