Are you ready to give up anything for the one you love,even you parents?
By gmkumar08
@gmkumar08 (396)
India
April 28, 2011 3:48am CST
I always come up with people saying that they are ready to give up anything for their love.K,it definitely is a good thing,coz being sincere is what a partner expects.But,does it include even parents.How can they come up with such an extreme decision?Why don't they try finding out a way to make their parents realize their feelings.This definitely works,right?What about you?Are you ready for doing such a crazy thing?
7 responses
@kaizel (82)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
Honestly... I am not prepared or rather in that kind of aspect.. I am not willing to give up my family just for my partner because for me a partner can be replaced, but having a family it can't. My family and I are very close and yes we all know that there are times that we argue a lot but it is a normal thing. Families cannot be replaced for a mere relationship. The one's who is always there for you during ups and downs are your family. In my case of course.
@gmkumar08 (396)
• India
28 Apr 11
I agree with you.Even to me,my family is more important.But,trust me,i have met such people who gave up their families for the one they love.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
16 Jun 11
Friend no one can tell because I think this is depend upon situation. Love means not surrender all things.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
29 Apr 11
It depends entirely on the situation. Sometimes it is possible, sometimes it just isn't.
My in-laws are crazy morons. There is just no talking to them about anything.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
I think those people who says they could give up even their parents for the one they love are immature. I don't know. I used to think like that before but as I grow older, I've learned so many lessons and I relaized that no matter how much I love a guy, parents are still more important than anyone else in my life.
@EricaBurns (117)
• United States
28 Apr 11
I believe if you really our in love their will be mutual respect from both parties, and hopefully you dont have to choose between that person and your family. But sometimes their our situations where you have to choose between your family and your partner, and I think it varies on the situation. A person has to take unto account if its worth it or not. I think if you have a family that loves you, and a partner that loves in time both sides will come around. For me I would probably choose the man I love because I dont have such a close family.
@karinxaaa (31)
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30 Apr 11
I would, in an instant. Your parents did not choose to love you. They 'have' to love you, because you are their child. They might not even like you. The affection of someone who loves you by choice is worth more than they affection of someone who feels obligated to supply it. My mother, for example, is no longer in my life, because I told her I didn't want to be her burden anymore. So I guess I coud marry whoever I wanted, and it doesn't matter what she thinks.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
28 Apr 11
You can do it for a loved one but it depends how big is our love.Depends on what you find on this man for whom must quit everything.But if you really think that love should not make you give up your parents and All of the rest.