Should my friend get married with a low cast girl
By mohitraj321
@mohitraj321 (496)
India
April 28, 2011 10:43am CST
Hello friend i am from India and here from 1 month. The main topic is that my friend is a teacher and loves a girl. He did not know anything about her now she is ready to marry with her but the problem is that she belongs to a scheduled class. His parents are not ready for this marriage because he belongs to a upper class. What should he do should he get merrided with her or should in with his parents. Friends tell me what should he do.
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3 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
28 Apr 11
Is it really a friend or is it yourself?
How come he didn't knew anything about her and all of a sudden they're getting married?
Wouldn't it make sense if your friend would've meet the parents before deciding to get married?
In my opinion it's all a little confusing and sounds like there's more to it than what you're writing, is there?
@mohitraj321 (496)
• India
29 Apr 11
Thanks Mr. Rtlsnk316 for your opinion but is it necessary to write all detail i wrote main point may be some mistake, should i explain here where they meet, what was the date, when he proposed her, it is commonsence friend. It makes no eference that this story belongs to my friend or to me. I am here for enjoyment and for some money ok your work is to respond if you like it you can respond otherwise dont respond ok thanks.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
29 Apr 11
As long as I'm following the rules, I'm entitled to respond as I may like, your're entitled to answer back or not, whatever you feel like.
If I asked all those questions, it's to try and elaborate a proper answer for your (or your friend's) dilemma, but looks like you just want any simple answer anyone can provide, good for you.
I personally like to give a good, real, based on facts opinion, but obviously you don't need or want that.
Have a great day anyways, best wishes if they get married, if not, then it wasn't meant to be.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
1 May 11
Welcome to mylot
Well such incidents are common these days, the lower caste boy or girl hide the caste usually, but if they really love, are matured, aged enough to get the marriage registered in court of law, they may proceed, first they should convince the parents, hope the parents will agree..
Thanks for sharing
Cheers.
God bless you, have a nice day ahead.
Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
@mohitraj321 (496)
• India
1 May 11
Yes Mr. Professor you are right this is the best way to respond and best example of explanation. Your answer is best god bless you thanks a lot to give the best way to solve the problem.
@karinxaaa (31)
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30 Apr 11
Perhaps they could arrange to move somewhere where cast is not an issue, if the husband could find a job in a another country. In the whole world, India is the only country where cast is an issue, and person cannot move from cast to cast. In any other country, a rich person may become poor or a poor person may become rich. There are hundred of other countries they could move where they would be considered equal in cast.
