Is it wrong?

If she still doing such things that you don't like and gives you so much embarrassment and pain. It is not wrong to forget it, my friend...

Haven't read any of your previous discussions. I understand where you are coming from. Sometimes even though you love someone you have to let them go. If they return in a better condition it was meant to be. Sometimes we have to allow people space to grow and in return work on ourselves so we can be a better person. May your girlfriend just don't know what she wants and can't make up her mind. People deal with alot physically and emotionally and when you have issues and another person is involved it makes your situation even worst. Its hard to say whether or not she is using you, but just know you can only help a person so many times before what you think is helping is actually hurting. If you are always running to her rescue she's not learning shes depending on you and knows that you will always be there. You need to give your relationship some space and time. Examine it all ends and make the best decision for you. Good luck and do what makes you happy.

no it is not wrong to turn away from an abusive relationship. you were taken advantage many times but still you have many ifs because you are blinded by your emotions. wake up she doesn't love you. cheers

It is only wrong to turn away from a relationship when you have something more to give. When it has exhausted you inside and out, it is not wrong to turn away.

Have a talk with hr first before doing anything- you need to hear her side and if she really cares for you. If she doesn't then just let her go..there are other girls out there who would love you in return..

yes i read your last topic and i have a comments too, and this is my thought too, I cannot say a words about her because i don't know her even if you talk about her on your last topic and now, The only things that you supposed to do is ask yourself if your Love with her is enough to compensate your trust and future suffering, may be you can overcome the next challenge or may be she can fix her issue. or you can help her manage those issue.

Hi,though i have never read your previous posts.But i can see from this post that you love your girlfriend very much, but she has done something bad. Well, i just want to say, no matter man or woman, if he or she doesn't really care about the relationship and hurt it once and again, then the other person doesn't need to do too much more for the relationship. I think you should calm down and give some time for the relationship. To figure out what is really on her mind. if she still loves you, she will have some reaction, if not, don't do anything any more.

I have not read your other discussions but based on personal experiance, sometimes even though you love someone sometimes a relationship just dosn't work out. I loved a guy named kyle once and I was with him for 4 years off and on and each time I kept letting him come back nomatter how much he hurt me or made me mad I just knew at the time that deep down he really did love me. But now I am with my current boyfriend of 3 steady years and I know I love him and plan on spending th rest of my life with him, I still love kyle even though I no longer talk to or see him but I do hope the best for him, but I now know that we whern't ment to be. I am not too sure what your situation is with your girlfriend but I hope this helps in someway.

I think you not communicating with her will answer all your questions. Just by reading what you wrote, you have a lot more doubts than certainties so it is best to walk away. If she does want to resolve her issues and be with you, she will come back. If she doesn't, all your doubts about her were right. I think the best thing you could do for yourself and for her is to stop the communication. The only way this girl will figure our her issues is if she has to, and if she doesn't have people to figure them out for her, she will because she has no other choice. If she does love, the only way she will see what she has and what she has lost is without having you. Otherwise, she will continue to take you for granted because she won't know what you are bringing to her life. I hope everything works out for the both of you!