Why is it too hard for him to move on?

Philippines
April 28, 2011 9:22pm CST
I been in a relationship for past 8 months ago. For now I am single and I don't want to commit into a relationship if I'm not sure of what I feel. My X-boyfriend keep on texting and visiting me in our house. We already end up our relationship for almost 8 months but still he told me "He can't move on" and he still loves me(of course I don't believe him). Actually I decided to have break-up with him because he never communicate me for almost 2 month (I feel rejected that time and I think he have other affair) and he never told me what was his reasons. I felt he don't love me anymore. I don't why is it he still insisting if we can be together again! I don't have any feelings for him right now and I keep telling it with him but he said "he'll wait for me to accept him again". Why is it too hard for him to move on when in fact his the one who causes our break-up. I feel annoying because of what he is doing. What do I have to do or tell him for him to stop it(stop for insisting that we would be together again)? Do I have to enter into a new relationship for him to stop?
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Your boyfriend has finally realized your true worth for him, after you ended your relationship . That's why he is trying to win you back. I guess, if you still have feelings for him, you can have a second chance together. If it will not work out well, then it's final - goodbye.
charmyann
@charmyann (8)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
The problem is that i never felt the same way as i feel for him before. I have doubt with him.
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Then, you can tell him honestly, not to bother you anymore.
laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Well, the time for a person to 'move on' varies from person to person. Perhaps for you it's easier because you already figured out that it's not meant to be, but perhaps on his side he's just beginning to see the real picture and has a hard time accepting it. You don't need to go into another relationship to prove to him that you don't think there could be more to you and him. You could just stop seeing him. Avoid answering text messages and just avoid welcoming him in your home all-in-all. I know it's pitiful, but I guess there's really no easy way to break someone's heart. Just make sure that you don't have any grudges left. When a person is rejected and accepts that fact - there is no turning back.