How true is it?
By cowboyofhell
@cowboyofhell (3063)
Philippines
April 29, 2011 2:42am CST
A man worries for a woman 90% of the time but a woman only worry for a man 10% of the time. If a person tell you this, is there truth and believe him? Why believe him? If such claim is false, what are the evidences that women care for more?
5 responses
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
30 Apr 11
I don't believe this but it depends on the culture. I know there are some places where men are completely inconsiderate to women. Where I live, I think men and women equally show concern for their loved ones. In my personal relationship, I feel that I care more for my partner because I pay for most things and I always worry about him. He also cares about me but when he is with his friends I'm sure he doesn't worry about me at all. Women today are much more independent and they don't need a man to take care of them, althought some women would hope for that. Just yesterday I heard a woman say "I want a man who can take care of me," to some extent you are right. I just don't think the statement makes sense that a man worries for the woman 90% of the time. What does that even mean? Like taking care of bills 90% of the time? cooking dinner? calling a person on the phone?
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
29 Apr 11
I support your discussion as I think about my girl friend too much and care for her a lot But as compare to me she always says that I was busy in my work So I could not remember to call you up, Even If I say her to call me up as sometimes I do not have balance in my cell.I could not sleep in nights If She does not talk to me or I don't call her up
@taski24 (214)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
It is false. Absolutely no truth in that. I would not believe him. A woman worries for a man most of the time. Do you want to know the reason why. The woman's choice of a man is limited only to those who take interest in her (except if she's liberated). That is why, woman worries whether they will be able to find their lifetime partner or not. A man, on the other hand, has limitless options when it comes to women. Do you know that hypothetically, there are ten possible woman partners for every man? Maybe the thing you are pertaining to is "who is more interested in making love most of the time".
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
Mirror mirror on the wall, who's the best lover of them all?
Love mishaps is not gender-specific. There are stories wherein the woman is the one who ends up in tears; but there are also stories wherein men ends up in tears. Cant really say...
@tohess (8)
• United States
29 Apr 11
Hey cowboyofhell,
I cannot vouch for either statement made, but what I can tell you is from experience.
My evidence of such a claim come from women, because they have an natural ability to nurture and listen to problems. Most men do not listen to a woman's issue although they may claim they do I just don't buy it. They seem to want to fix the issue when a woman just wants you to hear her.
I am not saying they don't talk to women but I do know that my wife and I have discussed this issue many times. However I did convince her to go to a female doctor for medical help when she needs it and the reason I gave her was that since men don't give birth and could not possibly understand this, that a female doctor would be a little more understanding of what is going on with the female body.