Some people have above average memories.
By megamatt
@megamatt (14291)
United States
April 29, 2011 6:07pm CST
It really does floor me sometimes when some people are able to remember my name and face that I barely have ever interacted with. It does lead to me standing there, racking my brain to try and figure out who they are. I can normally remember people quite well but obviously if it is a blink and you miss it moment, where I talk to someone, get introduced, but never see them again for months or years, and perhaps never give them another thought much sooner, that just astounds me that people are able to remember. And its not like a have a bad memory, its just some people have good memories that make it seem like I have a bad one.
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8 responses
@tink91879 (742)
• United States
30 Apr 11
I feel i have a good memory, but not with remembeing names. I can remember faces and details, also remember from early childhood, baby. I remember walking down a hall and having my parent help me. My husband hates the fact how I remember things better than him since that means i usually win an argument. it is astounding how some ppls minds work. I have seen ppl with awesome memories and wish i cld do that. Especially when it comes to remembering events in history, numbers, etc.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
2 May 11
A good memory can be a useful weapon when used right. When you think about it, memories are going to allow us to bring up things, that the people have no recollection of and thus they really are unable to formulate a solid enough comeback. That can give us a bit of a heads up, a bit of a real advantage in an argument. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@ofabiania (421)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
i must admit that i am bad with names as well as dates.. there are times when i just pretend that i know the person when in fact i forgot his/her name.. i just try not to make it obvious to the other person.. fortunately, it still has not gotten me to any trouble.. i guess there are really those people who are good with names and i'm just not one of them.. LOL
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
2 May 11
There are many people who are really good at remembering names indeed. I do admire these people to say the very least. These people are my heroes to say the least. They are really going to be good at making those connections that many cannot make. Therefore, they really do have a bit of a gift, when you think about it. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
30 Apr 11
I think that it all depends on how strong the memory is to us. some memories will stay with us longer and remain a part of our memory for years to come. some memories will just fizzle And fade away if they are not as important to our world.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
30 Apr 11
We have countless experiences throughout the day. Many of them do in fact stick in our minds for a bit longer than others. Our minds really work to the greatest degree and not everything sticks. Its unfortunate but very true. Hopefully we can remember those faces when it really counts and other things as well. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Although I feel I have a great memory I have had this same situation happen to me at one time and or another. I too rack my brain trying really hard to figure why on earth I, being so great at remembering can't figure out why I couldn't.
Perhaps subconsciously I was way too busy and not paying attention at the time, it is still a mystery on how this can happen at times.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Perhaps it is a part of us not paying attention. Or perhaps it is the fact that our past encounter with this person does not stick out with us. Of course, in the end, its not necessarily a bad thing. I have met people many times who have left negative impressions and never seen them again, but I'd perhaps remember them. Still even those with the best of memories tend to have a lapse of details. Thanks for responding, its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
hello,
I think we are the same. But when I am trying to remember them I usually figure out who are them even though it is too long to think. ha ha yeah, their are people who can remember easily those people who their interact even though it will just be your second time you meet him or he is not really your close friend. right? He still remember you. Maybe we should try to practice our minds. but I think this not our ability to know other people easily.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
2 May 11
There are some times where it just cannot be helped. It is just the matter of finding the right correction, to figure out the person. However, it really never comes. That can lead to an awkward situation. I think that ninety nine times out of one hundred, there are really no problems with me. It is that one time that really does bother me. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Maybe you have a big personality that is easy for others to remember. Sometimes it's hard for me to remember people who don't talk much.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
2 May 11
If you don't talk enough to make a connection, then you aren't going to really remember them all that much. After all, if you don't remember them, they did not really leave a big impression or the meeting was very brief. Their memories could be very, very good and there are people who are extremely detail oriented to say the least. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@dlpierce (495)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Encounters like that I can relate too well. Someone walks up and treats you like you've known them for years and you haven't a clue to who they are. I usually talk like I know them hoping to figure it out later. But wish later that I had asked who they were.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
30 Apr 11
There are a lot of times where I don't want to feel like a complete moron so hopefully I continue to lead on the conversation, in hopes that it will stir some random part of my memory. That does not work out as well as I would hope it does at times. It is just really something that they go on like we talk every day. I pretty much give myself a headache trying to figure out how I know these people. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.
@misc11 (384)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Everyone is different at good things. People are left or right brained and I think this has a big influence on your memory and how well you remember details. People who are left brained remember details about people like their name, eye color, what shirt they were wearing, dates, etc. People who are right brained are more of big picture people and remember the big picture instead of the small details. A big picture person wouldn't remember the specific details about each person but that they met a bunch of people at this event. If you are right handed, you are more likely to be left brained, and if you are left, you are more likely to be right brained. So, it does not mean you have a bad memory, you just use a different side of the brain!
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Very, very true. We do utilize our brains in many different ways. When you think about it, there is no right or wrong way to think. I tend to look at the bigger picture, picking the more important things out. Sometimes I pick up smaller details, but only when they are directly tied to the thing that is part of the big picture. Guess that's just how I roll. Thanks for responding. Its appreciated. Have a nice day.