Advice needed: My friends troubles :/
By Bryanx54
@Bryanx54 (644)
April 29, 2011 6:56pm CST
One of my close friends broke up with their girlfriend recently and they have been together for 3 years, she's blocked him, deleted him of facebook etc. He's really upset about it and i mean absolutely gutted, i seriously dunno how to help him really he tried numerous attempts to win her back but to no avail, i try to comforting but he keeps getting sad and reminding himself about her, what should i do now to help him?
4 responses
@mrgpk63 (444)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Tell Him to Move On as it isn't easy. She Decided maybe for the Right or Wrong Reason to Leave. Maybe She wasn't Right for Him. Maybe it was a Good Decision
and they both don't Realize it yet. Time will Heal All Problems and You can Only
try to Convince Him. Their are much Better Choices of Fish in the Sea.
@Bryanx54 (644)
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1 May 11
Absolutely i mean his girlfriend wasn't exactly, well how to put this a stunner, although he personally was excellent but she was very blunt at times, of course he could do better, but im letting time do its course so he can move and i can help him move onto to another, even then she could possiblity come back but then its his on terms to whether he wants her back or not. Thanks for your concern. :)
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
hello,
Yes, understand his situation is really difficult because he really loves the girl that is why she keep reminding all the things they made together. It is difficult to comfort one person that has a broken heart. But I think all you need to do is give him your shoulder to cry on after that you go out with him and with other girls. Go to his favorite place and it is your treat by that it can heal little by little. He is your friend so you know what are the things that can make him happy.
good luck
@Bryanx54 (644)
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1 May 11
Thank you for your concern, i liked your comment and i have took some of your ideas into consideration he getting on well, despite being still heartbroken i have been there for him and its helped ease the pain thank you for the good luck ha, but as time goes on he's getting better and better.
@misc11 (384)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Get him to go out so he can be around people. The more you are alone, the more lonely and sad you get. If you get him to go out and be around people, he will hopefully see that he can be happy alone and without her. After he starts going out, I think you should try and set him up with someone even if you know it won't go anywhere. The best way to move on is to go out with someone else because then you realize you could be with someone else and that life is not so bad. I think it is good she has no contact with him because it will help him move on. Make sure he doesn't have contact with her because that makes it a lot worse and the process much longer.
