when you should know its over?

heart break - heartbreak the most painful feeling that you can feel when you lose someone that you love most
Philippines
April 29, 2011 10:26pm CST
lot of us encounter different kinds of problem and solve it then you will have another problem again.well its easy for us to give advice to our friends and relatives of what to do,but now im gonna ask you something,your man does not like you no more,in your mind you know that he has new lady,but you cant give him up because you still love him and you also need his support to your studies..what is the best way to do ,stay or leave with him although you know that he has a new girl..
6 responses
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
you know that it's over, why stay in a relationship that the other person doesn't love you anymore. love is sacrifice. you have to let go. it hurts, i know and easier said than done. but you would only get hurt more when you stay. it's much easier to move on. your friends can help you out. it's just in your own perspective. you have to look for something to focus on. you said you need support in your studies. what kind of support? only you can do something about your studies. actually, your studies can be your moving on tool. just focus on your studies and show him that without him you can be a better person. psyche yourself that it's his lost not yours.
@audine (16)
30 Apr 11
you know that it over when your not hurting anymore.......you can look in his eyes without feeling a stabbing pain in your heart......you know its over when you see him with another and you feel happy for him.......you know that its over when you have learned to forgive and learn from everything that you have experience......... never forget coz you will never forget instead use to grow up.........and that when you know its over......
• Indonesia
30 Apr 11
hi im new comer here i think is right jeanne because for us is better someone love us,than we love someone :)
• United States
1 May 11
It's best if you leave him because staying with him you will only be disrespecting yourself and it will only end with you getting hurt. If you sit there and try to ignore the fact that you man has other lady you will only go crazy wondering if he's with her and what he's doing so don't take yourself through all that trouble if he loved you he wouldn't do it to you.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 11
Hi Majody! For me it's already a sign that he leaves you and he wants it over. It shows here that the girl is the one who can't accept the truth and still can't leave him. The best way to solve it is accept the fact that he's leaving you and begin the new chapter of your life that is get a strength to focus on your study. You will feel more hurt if you still want him to stay with you.
• Indonesia
30 Apr 11
hi, there, when you said he has new girlfriend, you should realize it's already over. You must be realistic with the situation, let him go and move on. I know it's hard because you love him very much and need him, but moreover, it just hurt you more deep. Open your heart. Boys are everywhere even love is not easy to find. Time will heal you. Now spend your time with your friend, forget him, start for new adventure, have lotting and enjoy life. It will be passed!
@oninomar (505)
• Philippines
30 Apr 11
She does not deserve your love. Just move on your life. Just focus with your studies. You don't need his support with your studies, you can have supports from your family, friends and other people who loves you.. There are so many thing you can explore without him, your world does not depends on him. Stay Happy and live happy!:)
@blogger01 (124)
• Philippines
1 May 11
In my own opinion, how can you be happier knowing that he's looking for his own happiness from others? Maybe it would be better to just let him go. At first, it would be really painful but believe me, overtime, little by little,the pain will fade until you become whole again. There's no more reason to stay, it will be more painful for you..