why do women wear sexy lingerie ???
By jacklintan
@jacklintan (1302)
Malaysia
April 30, 2011 6:59am CST
Recently, while doing shopping at recent clothing outlet, I can't help but noticed those sexy lingeries handing at the stores.
Those revealing lingeries are meant for "arousal" during intimate moments I must say.
As a women myself, I don't think I will buy those lingeries. It doesn't served any purpose. I can't help but wonders are they hugely demand in the market.
Any idea, men and women??
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10 responses
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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30 Apr 11
Lingerie is designed around the principle that it's sexier to be not-quite-naked and to leave something to the imagination. Covering the vital bits and pieces (!!) suggests that there's something private to discover, something personal that the person will only reveal to you. It works well.
The other side of the coin is that wearing it can make people feel sexier. They know they're wearing it. They know you don't know... but that you might find out. The human imagination is the greatest tool for excitement ever created.
Some lingerie is, in my opinion, bizarre - I've never understood corsets, for example. But it's pretty much a universal truth that it's far more arousing to undress someone and discover lingerie than it is to uncover granny pants and a thermal bra.
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@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 11
thanks for your deliberate explanation. :)
Me too, I don't think a granny pants and a thermal bra is what I expected my man to see!
;)
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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1 May 11
It doesn't even have to be "sexy" lingerie. Short shorts, crop-tops, even men's pyjamas can be sexy, depending on the woman (and personal tastes). My lady wore a pair of my boxers to sleep last night, which is really unusual for her (and I have no idea why she did), and she looks really sexy in them.
A lot of so-called sexy lingerie goes too far, in my opinion. Or rather it "tries too hard" to be sexy. Simplicity is often better than frills and all that.
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
1 May 11
Getting sexy not on purpose is rather thrilling to men!
I believed getting sexy with confidence made a huge difference!
Confident matters to ladies out there.
I feel sexy with just t-shirt with no undies ;)
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
4 May 11
hi Lyn,
thanks, I will consider it if really it means something for marriage life.
:)
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
3 May 11
hahaha, Lyn,
I dont think I will ever use that to please a man...
Dun like the feeling of being sexy. haha
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
10 Jul 11
I think You nailed the point of it with subject of this question...
Women wear Lingerie because it helps them feel sexy in them,and look sexy for the person who's getting to see it...
I think it was Terry Pratchett in one of his "Discworld" books who jokingly referred to Lingerie as "Light artillery in the war between the sexes"!
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
30 Apr 11
I'm with you. I don't wear lingerie. I don't even want to imagine what I would look like in it. I do know though women buy lingerie all the time. Sometimes men buy lingerie outfits for the signicant other or spouse. My husband wouldn't even walk into a lingerie store. I guess they invision great things to come. Best Wishes!
@jacklintan (1302)
• Malaysia
3 May 11
hehe,
I'm just a typical woman who never thought that sexy is a great tool to please a man.
:) Just like shy Diana...the same way, we are a shy person. :)
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
1 May 11
Are you serious? Women like to wear lingerie to drive their men crazy! I have in the past! Lingerie also helps me feel sexy,too! Men like to see it becuase it can arouse them and alots of men love seeing a sexy woman in lingerie! THIS WHY WOMAN WEAR LINGERIE! YOU ARE CLUELESS!
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
30 Apr 11
They say that women wear sexy lingerie because it is what they like to be seen in. i still think that women wear these kinds of clothes to impress and entice the partner they are with or one they are seeking to be with.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
1 May 11
Well, the small part of the population who have the body to fit into the little variety of sizes offered in lingerie shops might find it nice to wear something sexy and that they will like under their clothes.
I have never bought sexy lingerie, as I'm not in that small range of sizes, so I don't know the feeling of wanting to wear it and I can't really tell why others do it.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Apr 11
Reason why I wear it is because I like the way it makes me feel and look in them. I also wear them because so does my boyfriend. Plain and simple no other reason.