what are your weaknesses? or your worst trait?

i cant focus in 1 certain task because of my adhd, so I just do multi tasking because doing 1 task makes me unproductive. I also have a major writer's block, so i havent publish stuff for a long time. On other kind of weaknesses, I dont know how to be charismatic and approachable, people are very intimidated of me, they think I will murder them or something.

my weakness is also my strength... meaning i could either be very patient with a person, or very impatient, depending on my mood, feelings, current situation, the person i'm mad at, etc... it's like i go to extremes. it could be really challenging at times to control my emotions. i don't really have a temper, but i could be very emotional , lol, like when i get tantrums for petty reasons...like when i'm hungry or sleepy. i know it's immature. i'm doing my best to change it.

I think my worst trait is that I'm capable of being spiteful, but I do have it under control and choose not to do it.

My weakness as a person would be.. uhmm. I easily trust people. Actually people I know. They influence me easily and I don't make good in conversation. As a person I really do have lots of lapses and it irritates me. Good thing the quote "nobody's perfect" can always heighten up my self-esteem a bit. Too bad. I wish I can be more of an opinionated and dignified. Someday I hope I can beat that weakness! :)

I think my worst trait is being picky on people. My daughter would always get angry with me if i would accost her for why she has to do something that way and not this way that i perceived to be much more viable. That being so, i would now think twice or thrice before i pick on people, lest i be upbraided for it.

Me too! I am a total procrastinator. It has been a long time since I first learnt the word in a seminar that taught me how to deal with it. Twenty years later now, I am still the same old me. Believe me, I have tried. Today, I tend to forgive myself and do the best I can. There were times in the past that I pushed myself too hard and felt really bad about myself. I think it is important to learn to accept your not-so-good traits and just try to improve yourself but not to the extend of making yourself unhappy and stressful.

I think that my weakness is that I am sort of a needy person. Emotionally I am needed. I like to hear my husband say that he loves me, I like to cuddle, and just have that one on one time. Sometimes I think I drive him crazy though, because of my needyness, but I don't do that all to often. I think that since we have been married I have become less needy. At times I don't see it as a weakness, I just see it as really being in love with my husband. Another weakness I have is putting things off for myself. If it pertains to me needing to go to a doctor, or make an appointment for myself, I put it off. I take care of others first, and then take care of myself second.

I don't like to think of my weaknesses. that just makes me see them more in everything that i do. i like to comcentrate on my strengths and my motivations more. that is what drives positivity along.

Hi ofabiana: You are right. In my case, I must admit that I am too shy and silent person. This is not good at all because you lose some opportunities because of being so shy and in my case I want to have everything in control and my financial is one of the things that I take too in control this is a type of obsession so I need to relax a little bit with this. ALVARO

My weakness would be always leaving things to the last and very last minuite.I also tend to start something and never really get around to finishing what things that i have started.

i think my weakness is that i am very sensitive. If my friends would not talk to me even just for a minute, I would think that i did something that made them angry. Also, when someone does not smile at me, i would think that i have something wrong.

my weaknesses are over reaction to emotional issues. especially people i care for. my strength is i can drink till the sun comes up.....on retrospect...that's probably not such a good strength! lol!

L'am a hot tempered person, I can't deal with things too much. I make angry with someone very fast. There was a time that my girlfriend made cry because i shouted her. I feel so sorry for that, but I always try my best to overcome this attitude. I'm exerting my best things to do to be a better person.

I don't see any weaknesses in me or to reiterate , I see strengths that just haven't been tested because "no one is perfect" - there is no absolute truth rather every situation has its separate solution from another angle - "all answers are correct " so to speak. That is the attitude one has to bring because if you single-handedly or individually are not affected and the world is your oyster , you control it would you say that you still have any weakness? That saying if there is a weakness it's not within me but in total constant searching and not being able to understand people very well.

Frankness. Being frank and direct is my main weakness. Many people just cannot take it when I am being frank. I do not like beating around the bush. Neither do I enjoy sweet nothings.