A single man's solution to house cleaning
By bird123
@bird123 (10643)
United States
April 30, 2011 11:37pm CST
Are you having trouble getting your house clean?? Do all the chores seem to be just too much to handle?? Is there no time to clean the house?? This world takes all kinds. People can come up with all kinds of solutions. Some can be very unexpected.I have a single friend who has a unique way of dealing with this problem. Let me know what you think of his solution to house cleaning.
My single friend signed a lease on an apartment. He doesn't clean house for a whole year. After a year, when his lease runs out, he moves to a new clean apartment. Being a good friend, I help him move. How would you like to help someone move once a year?? Yes, this goes on year after year after year!!
My friend finally got married to a wonderful gal. The moving stopped. All I can say is Thank God!! So tell me. What do you think of my friend's house cleaning method. Don't clean just move out???
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11 responses
@sassygirlanne007 (4517)
• United States
1 May 11
I think that is a waste of money just to get by without cleaning. Does he leave the apartment dirty? If so does he have to pay a cleaning fee? if not I kinda feel bad for the people he is leasing from, no one likes people to move out and leave there places a mess because then they have to spend the money to have it cleaned.
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
1 May 11
Yes, he would lose that deposit everytime. I could never understand the logic behind it either. Of course, now he is married. Their place is very clean. I haven't asked who does the cleaning, however I can bet the wife does most of it. Marriage probably saved this guy's life healthwise.
@sassygirlanne007 (4517)
• United States
11 May 11
I think she also saved him alltof moey because deposits aren't cheap.
@vandana7 (100526)
• India
1 May 11
Aw...I like clean homes, and clean toilets. I have a problem. My papa loves collecting all possible papers. I cant seem to make him sell those unnecessary papers and junk. So my house does have plenty to clean all the time. But I always promise myself that someday I will get that tape and tie dad to one of those chairs and clean it all up as I want to. :)
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@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
3 May 11
If your dad has a yard, you can get your dad a shed for all his junk. Of course be diplomatic and don't tell him it's to keep the junk out of the house. You can tell him it's his very own personal storage space. If that doesn't work, you might buy him some storage cabinets for his house. It will keep the mess contained.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
1 May 11
People can be packrats especially when they get older. I haven't figured out why. Once as a part of a charity, we got together to go help some elderly people clean their houses. This one elderly lady got really mad when we were trying to throw away some plastic wrapping off of something she bought. You would have thought we were killing her yet it was over nothing but trash. People do value things differently. Sometimes, we must do the best we can. The elderly lady's house is much much cleaner than it was. Sounds like you are in the same situation.
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@imgrandma12 (677)
• United States
5 May 11
I think if you tackle on project of cleaning daily and you pick up after your self did dishes right away and stayed on a schedule a home can be maintain easily some times its pride of wanting a clean home other times its like maybe there is too much to do any way a women should not be stuck doing all the house work these days our lifes are busy too.
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
5 May 11
I think you are right. If we are not messy to begin with, then clean as we go, the problem is solved even before it becomes a problem. Good advice. Yes the work should be divided. I bet my friend's wife is doing most of the cleaning. It can be quality time to share work then no one feels overloaded.
@artistry (4151)
• United States
2 May 11
....Hi bird123, I have to say that I have never heard of anyone doing what your friend did. You were nice to help him each year, did he forfeit his deposit when he left each place? I would think that all he had to do, would be to hire a person to come in and clean his place once every two weeks, the place would have been fine. I wonder why he didn't do that. Women are usully better housekeepers than men, so the fact that he is a male is not so surprising. But some women don't like to clean and they will hire someone to do it for them, it is worth paying the money and the people usually do a good job if they are professional cleaners, Very interesting story and funny as well, his wife will have to get him started on helping with the housework unless she is nice enough to allow him a pass. Let's hope that it all works out for them. Cheers.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
2 May 11
I agree. It would have been much better to hire a maid. I bet the second half of the year was pretty tough. I haven't checked to see if he helps with the housework. I do have my doubts. Of course, women can do wonders when it comes to changing men. Maybe one day I'll get her alone and ask.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
1 May 11
Hi bird: It seems like a funny story but I can't imagine how a person can live in a house without cleaning it for a whole year . Maybe it works for your friend but I can't see myself in this situation. Thanks for sharing this story with us. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
1 May 11
Yes, it is a funny story unless you are the one helping to move that furniture. My poor back!!! Yes, this went on for several years. Good news, The guy is married. If I ever hear about them fixing to get a divorce, I'm going to have to leave town. I have a feeling he would go back to the same old ways. I guess it's another example of the great diversity there are in people. Times can be trying at times, however there is usually a good story to tell afterwards. Makes life interesting indeed!
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@myfourteen14 (117)
• Philippines
4 May 11
Hahaha what a funny thing to do. Well that is a ncie idea for someone who has the resources to move out and relocate to a new area once in a while but the problem is how is he ever have the guts to stay in that house for a year without cleaning it, Oh my I don't want to lie down on that floors man , hahaha
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
4 May 11
Maybe the guy should have signed a six month lease instead of a year. Of course, moving takes lots of work as well. In his mind, I'm sure he did that which was the least amount of work. Getting friends to help him move really got his friends to do his work. You are right. I wouldn't want to live in his place.
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@shaggin (72183)
• United States
5 May 11
Wow that to me doesnt sound like a good idea at all. Not only does he not get his deposit back his house is a pig style for an entire year. I just cant imagine that. It must be so digusting. As a friend I would want to help move their stuff but if it was truly that gross not being cleaned for a year I wouldnt want to step foot in that apartment. I feel bad for his wife if he is that much of a slob she will have her work cut out for her. My husband was a total slob as well. Once he moved out it was so much easier to keep the house clean.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
5 May 11
Their place is clean now. I bet the wife is doing it all. It's not healthy living in that place like he did. Getting married probably saved his life. Men will be men isn't really a good excuse for being a slob. One could at least live clean and maybe avoid some of the work, then cleaning wouldn't be so bad.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
2 May 11
I think that couch in front of that TV got most of the action. Lazy indeed. He was even too lazy to call to hire cleaning service. Well, I'm great now since he got married. I just hope it is a match made in heaven. If he was ever on his own again, I bet things would go back to the old way. I wonder what would of happened if I refused to help him move. He would have at least had to take the effort to call a moving or maid service. This world does have all kinds of people in it.
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@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
12 May 11
Waaaaaaaaaah! Pretty messy guy!
Well, I don't claim to be the most clean bachelor of the world but at least every once in a while I clean. When I want to focus, specially when I am writing, I don't want any distractions. And trashes would distract me if I could see one in my room.
It's pretty inconvenient to live in a house that's all messed up. And it's not a good solution to be moving every now and then just to get rid the cleaning stuff.
I am gross at times. But I do notice the mess, so I am compelled to clean every now and then. Plus moving from one place to the other is a lot more hassling than cleaning. No need to mention that it would also cost you even more (that's the case here in our country) you have to make, deposits and all. 2 months advance, one month rent deposit. So it's all costly and hassle, so I'd rather clean every now and then. If you're used to it, it would just then be part of the routine that you wouldn't even notice every time you do clean. :)
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
13 May 11
Yes, even cleaning up a little bit as you go would be better than not at all. The only logic I saw in this guy moving was that it was probably getting so bad after a year, he had to move. He couldn't even stand it. Well, with his wife cleaning now, I bet he feels like he is in heaven.
@sweetme329 (500)
• Australia
12 May 11
Hi Bird, if i were a single man like him, i would think that it was a perfect idea. But unfortunately i am a married woman, i would consider your friend's way of escaping from having to clean his house not so good. He loses his bond every-time because he leaves the house dirty which is a total waste of money. It doesn't take a changing house every single year to simply clean the house!
But yes, now that he is married, he indeed is having a good life! he must learn from his hard working wife!
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
13 May 11
Learn from his wife??? That's what I'm afraid of. I bet she is just doing it all. Hmmm? Do you think it would do any good to have a long talk with her??? She has to know the guy by now. Maybe time, along with her doing all the work, will get her to work on him to help. One just can't tell yet how this story will end up.